How come a man will say he’s “not ready” for a serious relationship with one woman… and then meet another woman a few weeks or months later and be smitten with her and get involved in a deep and lasting relationship that he freely commits himself to?
What in the world is going on here?
Are men lying?
Do they just not know what they’re feeling?
Or is it something else?
I answer this question in detail at the link below, where I talk about what it takes for a man to feel like he’s “ready” to love a woman, no matter what is happening in his life:
When I first started studying the whole area of dating and relationships, there was something I just couldn’t understand about why men fell for some women and not others… and why suddenly a man would go from “unavailable” to emotionally engaged and deeply in love with another woman.
Then it hit me as one day I made a crucial discovery that changed the way I looked at dating, love and relationships.
In short, here’s what I discovered…
We like to think that our more CONSCIOUS MIND is the one doing the choosing and deciding… and that what we talk about and say directly is what matters most and influences the people around us.
After years of learning and observation I’ve found that for men, falling in love and choosing to be with a woman because of the way she makes him FEEL is not a “logical” and 100% conscious decision.
It’s much more subtle and INDIRECT than that.
What makes a man truly fall for a woman has a whole lot more to do with the “triggers” that pull a man into that rarely-visited place deep inside his heart and mind – a place that most women just don’t know how to get in touch with.
Do you know what these “triggers” are that can instantly start to make a man wild with anticipation just to be in your presence?
And do you know what the greatest “trigger” of all is that can instantly draw a man into that open and loving space – to where he’ll cast away all his fears of commitment and of losing his freedom, and simply want to be with you?
I’ll tell you-
It’s the magic feeling of ATTRACTION.
This one thing is so important that it really is the ROOT of everything else – sharing affection, getting a man to want to communicate and open up, having him want to commit, feeling connected and close, the list goes on…
ALL of these can be traced back to how much ATTRACTION you’ve built between the two of you.
Of course, I’m not just talking about that plain old “Physical Attraction” a man can feel.
That’s something you know a man can and does experience simply walking down the street and seeing a beautiful woman.
I’m talking about another, deeper and more EMOTIONAL kind of attraction that bonds a man to ONE WOMAN and let’s him know that he wants to be with her, and only her.
And if you don’t know that there’s this “other” kind of attraction, one that goes beyond just Physical Attraction – then it’s going to be VERY DIFFICULT to have a man feel and experience that deep level of emotional connection and desire for you that will make him want a deep and LASTING relationship.
If you don’t know what this other kind of attraction is, don’t worry…
That’s why I made it the focus of an entire CD/DVD program I put together to help you.
It’s called Natural and Lasting Attraction.
This program is the best way to learn how to ignite – and KEEP – the flame of attraction burning.
I highly recommend you check it out. It will mean the difference between being in a loving, fulfilling relationship that lasts… or another relationship where you have to do all the “work” yourself just to try and keep it together while the man you’re with keeps pulling away and grows more and more DISTANT.
Don’t let this keep happening, when the answer is so fun and easy – create the magic feeling of ATTRACTION inside a man that will tell him you are truly the one woman for him.
He’ll love you for it.
And you’ll LOVE what you get from him in return.
Go here to learn more and watch some free video clips: