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Now on to those 3 tips on making a man feel intense attraction.
Here are 3 simple tips you can start using today.
And a 4th tip I know will change the way you see men and relationships – and how men feel when they’re around you – forever.
Let’s get to it.
I want you to know a few things about how men think and act when it comes to women, dating, and relationships.
And this have EVERYTHING to do with that magic emotion we like to call ATTRACTION.
Ever wonder why a man will be affectionate and completely into you one day.
And then for no good reason he stops calling, acts DISTANT and WITHDRAWN, and no longer seems to be interested in you?
It leaves you wondering…
Was it something you did or said to change his mind about you?
Or was he really that fickle?
Maybe he’s just bad at communicating his thoughts and feelings?
Either way, it doesn’t leave you feeling good. And it sits in your mind for longer than you’d care to admit.
What’s going on here with men?
And what can you do about it?
Here’s the reality…
If a man acts this way, he’s either:
A) Not interested in pursuing any kind of relationship with you
Or…
B) Not feeling much ATTRACTION for you.
Now there’s good news and bad news here.
Let’s start with the bad news.
Both of these reasons why a man will stop pursuing you are things that practically NO MAN will tell you directly.
Which means…
Odds are you’ll NEVER hear from him what in the world was going on.
Instead, he’ll tell you he’s too busy, stop calling, not return your calls, or a whole list of other cover-up excuses guys use.
Anything to keep from having to explain how he’s FEELING once something has happened that’s suddenly made him feel TURNED-OFF.
I know that sounds pretty awful, but here’s the GOOD NEWS-
If this kind of thing has happened to you with a great man you really were interested in, you should know that it can be easy to have a man start feeling and being interested in you again.
That is… if you know what to do.
Once you know how to create those intense feelings of not just short-lived Physical Attraction inside him, but the kind of attraction that tugs at his heartstrings on an EMOTIONAL LEVEL…
It’s then that everything in your relationship with him will start to feel effortless.
He’ll want and need to be with you, and spend his time with just you all on his own.
Now, for the hard part – inspiring this kind of deep ATTRACTION inside a man. (It’s not hard if you know how it works. And I’m about to show you.)
Here are a few simple tips for creating that kind of intense attraction:
Tip #1: Show Him You’re The Opposite Of Needy
In case you didn’t know, it’s important to understand why a Man can see you as needy, even when you’re not.
Did you know that a woman doesn’t actually have to actually BE needy for a man to get that icky feeling inside that tells him to RUN! when he’s around her?
The ways you share your feelings and lend emotional support to your girlfriends can bond your friendship, but that kind of “talking” and intimacy can actually make a man feel ANXIOUS AND SMOTHERED by you.
Some examples of this are asking a man such things as, “why didn’t you call yesterday?” or “aren’t we going to see each other this weekend?”
Don’t go there if you want to keep the attraction going.
A man will want more with you if he can sense that you’re focused on enjoying and celebrating the time you ARE spending together.
Rather than you feeling and accidentally communicating to him that you’re scared or uncertain about the time you’re NOT SPENDING together- which is guaranteed to make a strong independent man pull back.
A way to make this simple is this…
Focus your attention not on when or how much TIME you’re spending together.
Men don’t care or value things about a woman based on TIME. (The way lots of women do.)
Instead, focus on creating the situations, the moments, and the experiences that are sure to have him WANTING more from you.
When you do this, you won’t be having to worry or ask for more… because he’ll constantly be coming towards you and looking for more.
Tip #2: Be Different Than Other Women
A man loves being around a woman who has more to talk about than the boring everyday stuff.
Talking to him about things like problems at work, errands you have to do this weekend, how tired you feel, what you had for lunch, etc. all lead to the same uninspired feeling-
Plain old BOREDOM.
When you meet a man, asking him what he does for a living or talking about your job is also boring.
It’s what every OTHER woman does.
If you call a man you’ve been out with, and you start telling him all about some problem or tough situation you’re having in your life before he knows you very well, it’s not only boring to him- it’s also a little much for the first few go-rounds.
It’s what all the other women do who were the WRONG WOMAN for him.
If you want to meet and attract a very “together” guy who has a lot going for him, including looks and brains, then you have to STAND OUT from the crowd.
You cannot be BORING and PREDICTABLE.
Men who are attractive enough to be sought-after have seen and heard it all from women. And they’ll VERY QUICKLY lose interest if you talk the same way as 98% of the other women they’ve met.
But…
A man will LOVE being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life, and you bring a unique and UPBEAT ENERGY that shows you have fun and interesting things OF YOUR OWN going on.
This will set you APART from every other woman a man knows.
And it will make him want to spend more and more time with you.
The women a man is looking to AVOID are the women looking for a man to fill their life and make it more interesting and fun.
The woman a man can’t help but FALL FOR is the woman who is already doing great things in her own life which naturally attract a man into wanting to be more a part of it.
The question is…
What are you doing in YOUR OWN LIFE that a man would want to be a part of?
Or are you looking for a life with a man?
Tip #3: Don’t Be Predictable
If a man has no idea what you’ll do or say next, he’s MUCH more likely to constantly think and wonder about you.
What does this mean? This means that if you know to create a level of unpredictability so that he is constantly pleasantly surprised by you, it will work like magic to trigger his attraction.
For example, instead of thinking or feeling so seriously all the time with men when you have something you want to say… use humor and teasing when possible.
These 2 things are like MAGIC GLUE with a man that will make him want to stick with you.
One fun and simple thing you can do is this-
Tell a man the exact OPPOSITE of what you’re really thinking, but smile when you say it.
“I can’t stand you.” (wink)
“You look awful in that shirt.” (smirk)
“Too bad you’re no fun.” (grin)
Men love this kind of playful flirting.
Why?
Because rather than just complimenting a man or gushing about your feelings, you’re creating some playful TENSION.
And tension creates a great energy that a man will want more of.
It’s predictable that if you like a man, and you’re looking for a relationship for you to say,
“I think you’re a great guy, and I’m looking for a serious relationship and life partnership.”
Not so exciting in the grand scheme of things-although it’s heartfelt.
It’s fun and UNPREDICTABLE to instead say,
“You know, I’m not so sure about you. (wink) I’ll guess I’ll have to wait and see if you’re worthy of what I can share. (smile)”
This kind of thing drives a man wild on several levels beyond just his Physical Attraction.
One a basic level, men love to be teased by women they want.
Teasing works so well for women who use it as an alternative to being so serious because it is one of the primary male languages for BONDING AND CONNECTION.
You have probably seen this yourself.
Think about all the weird nicknames your guy has for his friends, and how they like to crack jokes and make (good-hearted) fun of each other.
Guys love it when you don’t take yourself too seriously.
On the other hand, men usually lose interest in a relationship when things get TOO PREDICTIBLE, TOO SERIOUS, or just TOO BORING and the woman is no longer the radiant, upbeat, fun-loving, energetic woman who he was attracted to in the first place.
Bottom line: men will become restless and uncertain when they stop feeling that gut-level attraction for you physically and emotionally.
It’s a huge part of what bonds a man to you.
That’s why it’s important to know what to do to trigger those feelings to keep the spark alive and healthy in your relationship.
Which brings me to…
Tip #4: When In Doubt, Seek Answers
Do you know exactly what to do to make the man you’re interested in quickly feel that spark of interest and ATTRACTION for you?
Or…
Do these things not come as naturally for you with men as you’d like to admit?
Too many women go about pretending that they know what men really want and respond to…
Meanwhile they do all kinds of things that accidentally push the man they’re interested in away from them.
There’s a common belief among women (and men) that we’re supposed to simply know and understand exactly what the opposite sex likes and wants.
Nothing could be farther from the truth for lots of women (and men).
Never the less, lots of women keep doing the things that don’t work with men and push them away over and over.
Only to become frustrated and upset when, yet again, things don’t work for them with a man.
If you’re serious about no longer feeling like your love life with men will NEVER WORK OUT…
And you’re really and truly ready for the right answers to make things work for you, then things are going to be easy for you.
Why easy?
Because you’ve already done THE HARD PART–
You’ve made the CHOICE to open up and learn and new way of going about things.
To get started doing the things that simply work with men, follow these 4 simple steps-
- Get my “Natural & Lasting Attraction” program
- Watch it and discover the simple things you can do and say with a man that will have him feeling wild with anticipation for each new step in your relationship
- Go out and actually DO the things I show you
- Sit back and enjoy the positive outcomes and the easy time you have connecting with and attracting that one special man in your life
It really doesn’t get much easier than this to create the change you’re looking for.
Go here now and get my “Natural & Lasting Attraction” program here:
Curious about exactly what’s in this in-depth attraction program of mine?
In it I show you how to focus your time, thoughts and energy with a man so you can watch his feelings for you grow and intensify…
And instead of you wasting your energy doing or saying things that would normally “freak” him out or make him withdraw, you can learn how to effortlessly create such intense feelings of attraction inside him that he’ll want to have you all to himself… forever.
Here are a few more of the exciting things you’ll learn in this program:
-The single most powerful way to really “get” to a man and lodge yourself in his mind so thoughts of you keep popping up… and actually interrupt his day! (I secretly LOVE when a woman does this to me… because it lets me know she’s something special and I should spend more time with her)
-The secrets of those “naturally attractive” women who never seem to go through all the fuss and hassle that other women endure (Here’s how to use their strategies to get a man to want YOU for more than just a fling)
-How to completely avoid the resistance some men have with love and connecting that most women struggle to get past… so you can bypass this whole unnecessary process of “dating games” and experience love naturally
-The REAL reason why men sometimes lose interest in a woman after they get physically involved with them for the first time (If you’ve had this happen with more than one or two men there is a good chance you are making this mistake… and it’s CRUCIAL that you learn what it is and how to fix it)
-What to do when you find yourself falling for a guy “friend” (Here’s the smooth and comfortable way to make him yours WITHOUT taking any risk of “freaking him out”)
-How to create intense EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION that gets a man to choose YOU over another woman who is younger or better-looking than you are
-A deadly mistake even confident, experienced women make that they THINK will make a man like them more… but actually drives a man AWAY because it makes you look “clingy”
-How to show a man you are interested in him in a way that makes him more and more interested in YOU each time you do it
-The deadly mistake that makes even confident women come off as “clingy” and even desperate to the one man they are REALLY interested in (Luckily, this is easy to avoid when you know what it is)
-The 3 parts of a man’s mind, and several simple tips on what to say to your man that will stimulate each of these 3 parts at once (The “Triune Brain”)
-And lots more
You can know all this, and enjoy the fun and comfort that comes from doing all the right things that turn your man on each and every day.
Wouldn’t you like to enjoy this effortless kind of feeling that comes from things just “flowing” between you in your relationship?
All you have to do is get yourself a copy of my “Natural And Lasting Attraction” program to get started.
The best part is that you can check it our for yourself FREE for an entire month.
I wouldn’t be surprised if you started noticing a HUGE difference right away when you start using my step-by-step plan for evoking powerful feelings of LOVE and CONNECTION in him.
And that’s before you even have to think about whether or not you want to keep and pay for this incredible program.
I’m 100% confident this program can and will change the way your man responds to you. That’s why I’m willing to let you TRY IT OUT before I’ll ask you to decide if it’s for you or not.
It’s really that simple.
If you want to learn how to make your man feel more physically and emotionally connected to you so that he wants you more than any woman he’s ever met… then get my “Natural And Lasting Attraction” and start using what’s in it right now.
Start creating that intense attraction with your man with the help of this program.
– the next step is right in front of you.
I strongly suggest you try my “Natural & Lasting Attraction” program now.
It’s right here:
Remember, you can TRY my program free for 30 days and decide it’s far and away the best approach for instantly improving your love life, and if you don’t agree, just send it back and you don’t have to pay a dime.
And don’t cheat yourself out of this opportunity to change things.
You really owe it to yourself to see what this is all about. Read all the details about this amazing program on attracting men right here:
I’ll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love,
Your Friend,
Christian Carter
maryam says
Very helpful and useful . thanks
trea says
Very nice and helpful .
sandrar says
Hi! I was surfing and found your blog post… nice! I love your blog. :) Cheers! Sandra. R.
Amber says
this helped me out so much, thanks
Crystal says
NEVER fall in love with a man!!! He will only break your heart and you will suffer like craaaazy… and do all the “mistakes” mentioned above which EVERY girl naturally makes when she is truly in love (being a bit clingy) :( Sad but true.
Let the MAN be the one who falls for YOU. And always love him less than he loves you.
Kate says
lol! OMG @ Crystal. Though I have to admit that would be the safe way to go.
abigail says
nice 1
arlene rattan says
I agree with Crystal……
Scorpion Girl says
Its so true… i go with crystal. And I have to point out that to stay attractive to a man, requires constant effort! And I don’t feel like I am enjoying the time I spend with a guy cuz I have to constantly have to ask myself “OMG, what will the other women reply to this? How can I stand out?” – and believe me, its like WORK. One goes out with a guy for relaxation. If to get a guy and keep him requires so much effort, I’d rather stay single. I’d prefer a guy who’d accept me for what I am and loves the real me. Not for the drama I put on to get his attention! We women deal with jerks too… no man is perfect. Neither are we women. So its high time men started understanding the differences and put up with us. If they cant, TO HELL WITH THEM! Girls, we don’t need a guy to complete us. Believe me! We are in fact better off without them!
Catz says
A little logic… one can be unpredictable only if one is indecisive. When it comes to a relationship, I don’t think any woman with a good character and self respect will wanna be indecisive…
Skeptic says
There are so many great women out there, why should we be doing all the hard work to get a man? You should expand your program into getting guys to want to attain the attention of a woman. But that may be just too hard for you, Carter.
Obvious says
Hi girls,
do u really think u dont need a guy to complete u…
Think again, guess u dress up all pretty for a party, all ur girlfriends compliments u…
but not a single guy gives u a 2nd glance…
Sure thing, all of u wud say “I dont give a damn”…
but deep inside u know how hurtful that nite wud be without a compliment/flattery frm a MAN…
Men play games, jus coz women started carrying a snobby attitude around men…
So cheer up and learn something…
Cheers…
Spike says
As caring as this article is…. ladies… it’s missing something very, very important……. if you want to attract a man, become beautiful. That is your number one thing to do. The best way to do this is to take care of your health, and the best way to do this is through healthy eating.
I’ve got a great resource for this, a book by Paul Chek, which you can find on my resources page here, http://attractivemanformula.com/wp/resources/
I help men become attractive, but Paul Chek’s book can help both men and women.
Take care, Spike
yep says
if a guy is interested in you then you won’t have to worry about rules and do’s and don’ts. It will just be. stop stressing, being anxious and cynical (even if you have had your heart broken) because that is what is unattractive. Good luck ladies. And if you don’t find someone, then i hope you still have fun an fulfilment in your life….there is much to do and happiness, even without ‘the man’!! and yes…..i am single and have been for many years but i like myself and that is the main thing!
paige says
to much wordsss!!!!!
Pendar says
It was realy helpful I actually tried these ideas and they were great!!!!
leana says
all of this, put simply, is BS! i will admit sometimes i feel like a natually boring person 90% of the time BUT does this actually mean id have to become a completely different person 1/2 the time or just change all together? seriously to catch a guy THIS way would bring me absolutly no pleasure…. when i find a guy im head over heels for i dont wanna have to wonder if i would be good enough the way i REALLY am, on those lazy days, when i wear my pizza stained t-shirt and watch adult swim till 3 am.
Dina says
Men are dogs! Let them do the work.
U don’t need a man to break your heart.
Trust no man further than u can spit, girls. They are all the same. DOGS!
Bradd says
Oh my God! This was so F&%CKING HARD TO READ! you don’t have to separate each line with so much space. I’m feeling sick of reading this and the comment above.
Mel says
BS, take me as I am or watch me as I go. Thats that!
Howard says
Yeah, I can understand the part about not being too clingy, but that applies to guys too. You have to worry about that on both sides of the relationship. This makes it sound like the girl should be doing all the work to get the man. Now personally (and I’d like to say I’m a bit chivalrous) If I am interested in a girl then I will be working to attract her. A man that sits there and lets the girl do everything is a single man for a reason. Just saying.
Sincerely,
Howard.
Sarah says
So now you are asking women to play games now?
How about just being yourself?
LeeAnn says
This has some helpful information, but I will tell you it was very hard to read and the style in which it was written was very childish. But it isn’t telling you to change yourself; it’s just giving you tips as to what you can do if you really want a guy in your life so desperately. I think I agree with Howard, he has the right idea. And he brings me to my next point, men are not dogs, some are actually nice and intelligent; women just don’t give them the time of day, or if we do, we think of them as a friend and we don’t let the possibility of anything more grow between us. So we really need to stop worrying about being attractive; we just need to worry about being open to everyone and accepting of all, even the things we cannot change about ourselves or others.
loving says
Hi I love your blog..Im a single mom of 3..someone was attracted to me for the first time he met me..he said I look peaceful, serios and kind..then he found out im single mom, working mom and a student and he even more amzed:):):) but first time i saw him he wasnt attractive cuz he seemed too arrogant to me but I felt he have this enormous energy and he made me irritate and wonder of him somehow..i caught him looked at me all the time and i begun to felt nervous..then that was the time he came closer and asked about me and he seemed calmed atlast I then saw he was kind of relax but stress and tried to get my attention..he said he liked me so much and asked for communication, he lived far but we already met 3 times in one year..He was attracted to me as he said im a strong and independent woman and very cute snooby and he likes that..Im taking my time and soo he is as I cant go into relationship wd out accomplishing my personal dreams..I want to clear my life(problems) before intering to the new relationship…but we are good together and laughing and fun together,,there was no words come out in my mouth that didnt make him laugh , till he just just grabbed me and said…stop it honey because I got stomach ache..maybe because of my accent or face expression while talking his language..but we really had a great time together,,,he really cares so much about me and my kids..he knew my kids birthdays and mine…in christmass he must to see us in web camera while opening the gifts..we have some kind of deep connection..maybe i can say that we are in deep mutual understanding about love and care…we avoid the words ‘relationship” yet because we both agreed that no relationship as long as we both are away..im just enjoying my communication wd him. have fun about it and live my life wd kids at same time wd out any expectation from him…
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