**Question From A Reader**
I have just read your latest email about mistakes and i have to admit I nearly wept. You are totally right! I recently started spending a lot of time with a guy I used to know. We had an instant connection and he was exactly as you said:
affectionate at first, initiating plans etc, then I made not one mistake but ALL of those you mentioned in your email, and as you said…. he pulled away big time. The attractions gone for him now. What I want to know is, is there any way I can reverse the damage I have caused? Can I get my friendship with him back on track? Is it possible he may learn to feel again what he once felt for me? Please help. Im at my wits end and I really do miss having him in my life. I would be grateful for any advice you could give me on this matter.
Let me get right to the point here about what you need to do…
First off, as you start to recognize new things about yourself and the mistakes you’ve been making, it’s very easy to start thinking that things are EVEN WORSE than you thought they were, and for that to freak you out.
But don’t let this stop you from continuing to learn and grow.
There’s a funny thing that happens to us in life…