Have you recently broken up with a man and you’re wondering how you’re going to “get back out there” and start dating again?
Are you feeling like you’ve got too much going on to focus on dating and socializing right now?
Or maybe you have children and can’t imagine having the time and energy for a love life?
If you can relate to any of these, I have good news.
In this article I’m going to give you 3 quick tips on how to meet lots of new and interesting men WITHOUT taking a ton of time away from your busy schedule, your work or your family.
I’m also going to tell you the BEST way to attract the RIGHT man and find the love you want, without wasting a lot of time on men who are inappropriate, wrong or unavailable.
Because the LAST thing you need is to waste a lot of time with a man who is just going to give you the “runaround” or treat you badly.
So let’s get started.
I get a lot of e-mails from readers who tell me that for a lot of reasons, they’re having trouble figuring out how to get back in the dating scene.
They don’t know where to meet single men.
They aren’t sure if they can find a man close to their age who will be interested in them.
They worry about dating because they have kids.
You may be wondering some of the same things yourself.
You feel like you don’t have “time” to date.
Or you lack the motivation and energy after going through a long or painful breakup.
Or maybe you have kids, and aren’t even sure how you’re supposed to handle “dating” and being a good parent at the same time.
I’m sure you’ve gotten a lot of advice on what to do from family or friends.
But you still don’t see how things are going to change for you anytime soon, in order for you to find the “mental space” to start dating.
I have to tell you, though. the only thing standing in your way is. well, is YOU.
I personally know TONS of women in your exact situation who have just made a small shift in their thinking and have changed their love lives forever.
These are the steps they took, and the steps I think you need to take in order to get your love life back on track today:
>>RESTARTING YOUR LOVE LIFE STEP #1:
Go Where the MOST Single Men Are – ONLINE
Online dating is the quickest and BEST way to meet as many single, attractive men who SHARE YOUR INTERESTS and with whom you otherwise would never cross paths.
There may be at least a dozen great single guys within a mile of where you live, and you would never know it – but that’s the beauty of online dating. If they’re out there, chances are, they’re online looking for a great woman like YOU, too.
Whether you’ve never tried it, or have tried it and you weren’t successful at it before, you really owe it to yourself to try online dating AGAIN.
I know so many women who swore up and down that online dating just wasn’t for them, but once they finally tried it the first time – or actually buckled down and tried it AGAIN – were so glad they did.
Especially after they learned the most effective attraction tips and how-to’s SPECIFICALLY for online dating, in my “Finding Love Online” program.
To learn the secrets of how to set yourself up for success online from DAY ONE – from easily writing a profile that stands out above all others to how to screen for the “right” man and gracefully reject the inappropriate ones…
To what to do and say on a first date so he asks you out again and again, you need to check out my special program just for online dating:
So, once you set yourself up online, then it’s on to step #2:
>>RESTARTING YOUR LOVE LIFE STEP #2:
Make Yourself Available.
You may think that you have ZERO time to go out and meet men. You work hard, and when you come home you’re too tired to even THINK about being “social” or trying to get ready to go out.
I get it.
I can also imagine how hard it can be when you have kids and you want to give them all your love and attention when you’re together.
The thing is, your kids are going to be much happier if YOU are happy – and if you feel that you really want a partner in your life now, or in the future, then postponing dating isn’t going to make you a happier person.
You don’t have to sacrifice your own happiness in order to make others happy – and you shouldn’t.
Look, you don’t need to have tons of free time to date. All you need is to DECIDE that you want to make yourself available, and then you want to go for it.
You’ll be surprised at how much MORE energy and time you’ll find for love when it finally comes your way.
Have you ever had a friend claim they had “no time” for a love life, and you knew they were lonely deep-down and really needed to MAKE TIME.
Then a weird thing happened. out of the blue they met someone, fell in love, and all of a sudden, “time” was no longer an issue?
It’s like they were able to easily shift their schedule and priorities and became more fulfilled, happier people because of it?
Yeah, I have, too.
So, here’s what you do.
Think about times in your day when you might be able to set aside 30-60 minutes to have a quick meal or a cup of coffee with a man. Maybe it’s on your lunch hour. Maybe it’s meeting over coffee and a bagel in the morning for 20 minutes.
Maybe it’s for a short walk in a park where you can get some exercise AND have a great conversation with a man. (That’s the GOOD kind of multi-tasking!)
Take out a calendar and actually jot down the days and times you could spare an hour or less for a casual meet-up.
The point is, you don’t need to set aside entire evenings or weekends to date. The goal here is to set aside small amounts of time to meet the men you’ve screened online to see if there is chemistry with any of them, if you have things in common, if you feel comfortable and relaxed around them.
This way, you’re meeting a lot of available, single guys and you’re increasing the chances that you’ll find someone you’ll ultimately click with.
>>RESTARTING YOUR LOVE LIFE STEP #3:
Increase Your Chances of Success
By setting aside small chunks of time in your week to meet and qualify men you’ve found online, you can literally be meeting as many as 5 or more single men each week.
Here’s the beauty of taking this “all at once” blanket approach to dating.
First of all, you’re increasing your chances of success to find THE right guy who shares your values, interests and for whom you have a mutual attraction.
You’re also not getting “too heavy” with any ONE guy too quickly…which, by the way, can become a TURN-OFF if the guy isn’t “feeling it” for you yet.
For example, if you were to go out on 3 consecutive dates with just one man, and found out later that he was still actively online meeting other women – and you HADN’T discussed exclusivity or whether or not you were even in a real “relationship” yet.
You’ll probably give him a weird “vibe” when you talk to him next.
You might even confront him and ask why he’s still online meeting other women.
But in HIS mind, he’s still “getting to know you.”
And he’ll see your “vibe” or your confrontation as a bit “over the top” and dramatic. He just isn’t going to GET IT.
Until you get to know a man, and until there is an actual DISCUSSION about exclusivity or the fact that you’re now in a committed relationship, you should just assume that you can still get to know other men, and he can still get to know other women.
You should never assume there is more to a relationship than has been discussed or agreed to. This is one of the most common complaints I hear from women – that they “assumed” things were exclusive, when in fact, they weren’t (in the guy’s mind).
Going on short, casual dates with a few at the same time allows you to take your time figuring out what you want, and it has the added benefit of creating ATTRACTION because the man realizes you’re a woman with a full and great life and you are willing to TAKE THE TIME to get to know a man before you’ll let him fully into your life.
And, by taking your time and meeting many men, you increase your chances of finding the RIGHT man, instead of quickly “settling” for the WRONG man just because you feel intense chemistry with him.
Quickly jumping into a relationship because you feel chemistry is what I call the “Danger of a Connection” in my eBook and it’s the source of a LOT of problems and heartbreak in relationships.
If you haven’t read about this in my eBook, here’s where you can download a 7-day trial copy of my book and learn about the “Danger of a Connection” and how to avoid it, in literally a few minutes:
You can also HUGELY increase the chances of meeting and attracting a good guy, and triggering his attraction for you by following a few simple tips and techniques.
These are tips on what to do and say not just ONLINE, but on a FIRST DATE.
On a related note… if you have already tried, or thought about trying ONLINE DATING, let me ask you:Have you put a ton of effort and time into putting together a great online profile only to have zero quality responses, or worse, emails that seem promising but are ultimately “dead ends”?
There are so many attractive, quality men online… but the problem is you’re either:
- not getting any attention at all, or the WRONG KIND of attention from men who totally repel you
- a great guy writes you once or twice and then stops writing altogether – for no apparent reason
- the guy seems disinterested, even though you’ve read his profile and you know you’d be a great match
So what’s the story here?
Is there some secret to online dating that you’re not “getting” or are all the men online just a bunch of flakes?
Or are YOU doing something wrong?
Finding and meeting the perfect man online isn’t impossible. As a matter of fact it’s easier than ever IF you know the special attraction “language” to use.
It’s as easy as knowing the right WORDS and PHRASES to use and avoid… so you don’t miss connecting with the right man for you.
In my newest CD/DVD program “Finding Love Online”, you’d get my in-depth “how-to” program on Finding Love Online that will show you specific tips and tricks on how to quickly and easily do all of the following:
- identify the right kind of guy online from all the WRONG ONES that will waste your time
- write a profile that a man CAN’T RESIST responding to
- ask the right questions to see if a man is WORTH meeting in person
- take it from cyberspace to the real world SAFELY AND QUICKLY and get his interest so he’ll ask you out again and again
In my “Finding Love Online” program I show you all the ways to STAND OUT and be noticed… as well as the 5 things to avoid writing in any profile or email so a quality man doesn’t CRINGE when he reads it (or quickly make him MOVE ON to the next profile and skip yours altogether).
Details about this program are right here:
Now, here’s something you might want to take me up on…
I’ll ship ALL of the following to you risk-free so you can try it out:
- My newest program “Finding Love Online” on CD or DVD for you to try out and see if you love it for a full 30 days
- A new interview with a brand new dating and relationship expert, author or counselor, delivered in your mailbox each month, but ONLY IF you decide to continue with the series. Cancel anytime.
Plus, I’ll ship all of this to you at my expense so you don’t have to pay a single thing to try it all out and start improving your life.
Here’s a way I’ve made this SUPER SIMPLE…
All you need to do if you’re ready is go here to read the detailed letter about my “Finding Love Online” program and near the bottom of the page you’ll click on the “Free Trial” button.
After you do this, you’ll automatically be asked if you’d also like to get my Monthly Interview free trial.
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So go here now:
And let me know how you like all the great materials I send you.
I’ll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love.