Have you ever been out with friends having a great time and someone brings up a couple you all know and says…
“Hey, have you heard the news? So and so just got engaged!”
Of course, you nod along as everyone comments “Oh that’s great”, and “They must be so happy”.
You’re thinking the same thing, but then it hits you…
Why isn’t YOUR RELATIONSHIP moving forward?
Why doesn’t a proposal seem like it’s coming any time soon… if at all for you?
And why does just keeping your relationship going in the first place seem like a struggle, while other couples are committing, in love, starting a family, and making a future together?
And if that wasn’t enough to make you feel awful… you realize that YOUR GUY who’s also there hearing about the engagement seems to be totally avoiding the subject.
Or worse… he’s actually bothered and is acting uncomfortable just at the thought of commitment and marriage.
If you know what I’m talking about then I’ve got bad news for you-
You’ve heard about them before, but you didn’t think you would be with one…
But you’re dating a “commitment-phobe”.
Maybe he’s afraid of the idea of “forever”.
Or maybe he just likes the idea that even though you two may have an “understanding” that you are a couple… he still has his “freedom” and he isn’t ready for happily ever after.
Or it is POSSIBLE that in the past he freely gave his heart – only to be hurt and to not want to “go there” again? Even with you?
As if all this wasn’t confusing or frustrating enough to figure out and to deal with…
Maybe he’s just a normal average guy who doesn’t know what he wants.
Let me ask you…
Have you ever seen a man who you thought would NEVER settle down and get married suddenly meet the right woman and fall deeply in love with her?
A few weeks or months earlier this man might have been talking about how he loves his single life… and how he thinks he might never want to get married… or at least until he’s much older.
And then the right woman came along and all that talk went out the window… as he seemed to be magically transformed into a loving, caring, loyal, committed man.
Was he lying before about wanting to stay single and not get married?
Or did something change?
The truth is that men can come up with TONS of reasons to NOT commit to a woman exclusively, and to not want to “settle down”.
But all the many reasons and beliefs that they have can go out the window in a matter of enchanted moments with the right woman.
Here’s the point…
To SOME degree, most men are “hard-wired” to feel like commitment isn’t in their best interest, and they act accordingly most of the time.
All it takes is 1 good woman to come along and change their entire BELIEF SYSTEM about what LOVE and COMMITMENT really means… and how it will affect their life.
The good news is that there are specific ways that you can tap into the side of a man that will open up to the benefits of a COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP with you.
And you can do it more quickly and with less “work” than you ever thought possible.
But only if you know how to communicate with a man around the whole concept of COMMITMENT…and show him how it’s completely in HIS best interest.
He will be more open to the idea of commitment if you know what triggers his commitment resistance and how to avoid those triggers.
In my “From Casual To Committed” program you’ll learn to spot the things you may already be doing that are naturally encouraging a man to NOT want to commit to you… and discover some easy to adopt strategies to get him begging to be with you and only you forever.
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This amazing program will also give you a better understanding of what “commitment” really means to a man, why men like to “just date”…and how you can adjust your Commitment Timeline to his so that you will ALWAYS know exactly what to say and do (and when) in order to sync up with him as you move forward and grow closer in your relationship.
(Hint: When you do this and you understand and tap into the power of a man’s Commitment Timeline he will think that moving towards commitment is HIS IDEA, and he’ll happily go down that road with you and lead you as far as you want things to go.)
You can preview this program absolutelyFREE for 30 days and try out some of the effective communication techniques inside that are guaranteed to help you build and grow your future with a man.
Don’t wait for a man to figure things out and lead your relationship forward on his own.
And don’t make the mistake of trying to do all the “heavy lifting” yourself to make things come together and work in your relationship.
If you leave things up to a man and his internal “wiring” that keeps him wanting to stay “casual” and keep his freedom… then things aren’t going to move forward for you and grow more committed on any level any time soon.
If you really want to know how to turn a man who doesn’t show much interest in growing closer and having a more physically or emotionally committed relationship… then you need to go and get this program right now.
I’ll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love.
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