Do you know what the single MOST IMPORTANT SKILL to have in a relationship with a man is?
The one skill that underlies EVERYTHING, and is proven to be the ultimate “make it or break it” aspect for long term relationships and marriage?
I’ll give you a second to think about what this one absolutely critical skill is…
Figure it out yet?
Is it knowing how to keep a fulfilling life of your own while in a serious relationship?
Is it taking responsibility for your own happiness first?
Or is it keeping the passion alive and making sure he’s “sexually satisfied” with you so that he wants to stay with you and only you?
The answer is none of these things.
The single most important thing you’ll ever need to know if you want to have a LASTING and SECURE RELATIONSHIP with a man is…
The skill of knowing how to CONNECT and COMMUNICATE with a man.
And notice I said “… with a man”.
Now, it might sound simple, but don’t be fooled here and make the mistake most women make thinking they know what they’re doing when it comes to how men think about talking and sharing in a relationship with a woman…
See… most women believe that they are great communicators because they can SHARE HOW THEY FEEL, and do so often.
But does this get them the kind of LISTENING and UNDERSTANDING that they want from the one man they want it with?
For an overwhelming majority of women, the answer is NO, it doesn’t.
But if you think about it, the numbers don’t add up here.
Here’s what I mean…
If you’re like most women, and you’re a great communicator and like to talk and share, then it makes sense that you should have an amazing level of communication going on in your relationships, right?
And you probably do… but mostly with THE WOMEN in your life. (Hint, hint)
I mean, doesn’t great communication mean that you’re able to create the SITUATION or the “environment” where both parties can talk, listen, understand each other, and share?
That’s what being a great communicator is all about – being the one to “facilitate” understanding and sharing.
But then why is it that so many women who are great communicators seem to be the ones who have UNSATISFYING and FRUSTRATING relationships that have little or no TWO-WAY COMMUNICATION with the man in their lives.
Following me here?
Something is off.
Here’s what I’ve discovered over the years working with women and helping them create amazing relationships with men…
Women who don’t understand how to genuinely connect with and understand men are always chalking up the poor level of communication to THE MAN in their life – as they see it all as a function of how he has STOPPED TALKING AND SHARING with them.
Now, who am I to say that this isn’t at least partly true.
But here’s WHAT REALLY MATTERS…
What does this situation where a man shuts off mean if you really are a great communicator?
It means that you have an opportunity to use your knowledge and SKILLS to quickly “facilitate” a new kind of conversation that will “re-engage” a man and immediately open the doors of LISTENING and UNDERSTANDING back up between you both.
The truth is, IT IS POSSIBLE to create near INSTANT CHANGE if you know how to communicate and connect with someone in the right way.
And when you start to learn how all this works, and how to quickly and easily connect with anyone on a deep level at any time, something magical starts to happen for you…
You start to harness the power of creating a strong “connection” between you and a man in each critical moment in your relationship…
And what’s even better, you start to enjoy the benefits of how a deep level of connection can immediately transform everything about how you are with each other.
In other words, that strong and powerful “connection” that you build actually safeguards you when the bad times, and the tough times do come and go.
And It’s AMAZING when you can experience this and feel the joy, the fulfillment, and the SECURITY and CERTAINTY that it brings.
Since we’ve touched on all this about the skill of creating a deep level of connection through communication, I’d like to ask you…
Do you have this CRITICAL SKILL right now?
Can you create the change and the growth you want in your relationship from your own ability to communicate and connect with HIM?
Or are you waiting for him to figure out how to reconnect with you, so he’ll pull you and your relationship out of the “funk” that it’s fallen into?
Do you feel STUCK as you’re constantly trying to reconnect, but the more you seem to try and talk, the more he seems to pull away?
If you don’t have this skill we’ve been talking about… then I think you’re starting to see that you’ll constantly be at the mercy of whether or not a guy chooses to feel like opening up to you or not.
And as you might already know, it’s in a man’s nature to want to “shut off” a lot of times.
In fact, he can go for days, weeks, months, even years without feeling the need or desire to open up and share what’s going on inside.
Is your strategy really to either:
- Fight against this by telling him he’s wrong and that he’s ruining your relationship?
- Wait it out and hope that he pulls himself out of it for the sake of your relationship?
I would strongly NOT recommend these strategies in a relationship with a man…even though they happen to be two of the most common “strategies” women take when they want to improve their relationship and the level of communication that’s happening.
Don’t keep feeling scared, anxious, and UNCERTAIN about whether or not a man is going to close off in the future and stay that way until you’re left with an empty shell of a relationship.
It’s time you started creating your own life and relationship that isn’t determined by whether or not a man feels like closing off or not.
And that’s where I can help.
The first step is to take TOTAL PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY for creating the kind of communication you’d like to have in your life, and with a man in your relationship.
This will send a clear, subtle, but irrefutable message… because when you do this, suddenly all the frustration and blame you’ve been feeling that still hasn’t CHANGED THINGS will fall away and simply disappear inside you.
And a man will instantly notice and wonder what has changed inside you…
And he’ll be drawn to you, wanting to know what’s going on.
The next step is to make sure that you know what to do with this new “space” and environment for connection that will be created between you and a man.
And this is where it becomes absolutely critical that you have your act together when it comes to being able to COMMUNICATE in a way that builds connection and understanding.
My “Communication Secrets For A Secure Relationship” program will quickly teach you how to share your thoughts and emotions in a way that guarantees a man will not only listen, respect your feelings, and respond in a positive way when you do make the first critical step and take responsibility for the communication you have in your relationship…
But it will also show you EXACTLY how to approach each conversation, what to say, the right and wrong way to say it… and help you avoid all the common mistakes that send men packing even though they seem like nothing to you.
The best part is that even though it sounds like a whole lot of “work”… it’s really simply to get once you spend the time to start learning and working with the material.
But don’t take my word for it… you can watch real women who have already worked with the material in this program, and listen to what THEY have to say about it.
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This program is the WORLD’S BEST way to learn what is happening “beneath the surface” in conversations and in a man’s mind… and it will not only help you get a clear handle on why a man isn’t hearing you, but how to easily get across what you’re thinking and feeling in a way that a man is sure to HEAR and UNDERSTAND.
And more importantly respond to in an open and supportive way.
The difference is often a tiny shift, or a word here or there – but these can make ALL THE DIFFERENCE.
If you really want to create a successful relationship, I highly recommend you check out this program.
Go to the link below to learn more, watch some sample video clips… and try it out for an entire month for free to see if it’s the real thing and delivers on all the real specifics I’ve promised here.
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If not, simply send it back and you won’t pay a thing.
It’s that simple.
And now is your chance to change your life and the kind of communication and connection you share with a man, FOREVER.
What’s that worth to you?
It’s probably pretty priceless.
I’m giving you a completely risk-free opportunity to invest in the rest of your life and relationship.
So don’t keep yourself from the love, happiness, and security you could have when it’s right in front of you.
The sooner you learn what it takes to communicate with a man and get the RESPONSE that you want (him being open, supportive, loving, understanding)…
Then the sooner you’ll be able to start enjoying a relationship you can have real CONFIDENCE and SECURITY in.
After all, wouldn’t it be better to be telling your girlfriends about how wonderful your man is… instead of bonding over why he isn’t and how it’s holding you back in love?
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You won’t be disappointed, and I’ll talk to you again soon.
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