Why is it that a man can seem so passionate and excited about you when you first meet, but then “cools off” quickly the more you get to know each other?
Are men just into “the chase” and lose interest once they sense that they “have” you, or is there something else going on?
The truth is that a man will remain intrigued and excited about you IF he develops EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION for you.
If know what to do to trigger that kind of EXCITEMENT in his mind over and over, whether you’ve been together for a few weeks, a few months or even YEARS into a relationship…he will feel the same kind of passion he felt when you first met.
The reason why relationships often sag into a state of boredom and why men often withdraw or become PREOCCUPIED or DISTANT is because he’s simply not feeling that gut-level of attraction for you.
To learn how to quickly spark attraction in your man and get him wondering and thinking about you, read this special letter, get some free tips and check out the video samples at the bottom of the page:
Have you been feeling overwhelmed and burned out from all the responsibilities and tasks you do day in and day out, so that you barely have any time or energy to put into taking care of YOURSELF or figuring out what it is YOU need in order to feel fulfilled and happy…whether in your relationship, or in your career, or just in LIFE?
It’s very easy to let weeks, months and even YEARS go by while you’re busy checking off your daily to-do lists and then wake up one day and ask yourself,”Who am I, what am I doing with my life?” and then on top of it realize, “What happened to my LOVE LIFE??”
I hear this from women ALL THE TIME – they get into a relationship, they focus so much on trying to make it “work” or being what they think the man wants them to be…
Or they get so totally busy with life’s little details, that when the relationship finally ends and they are finally forced to look at what they really want out of life, they realize they had LOST THEIR WAY.
They stopped being their authentic selves and suppressed their dreams because they had spent years ignoring what it is their soul was really yearning to be.
So when the relationship they were in ends, they begin to feel as if they are “waking up” to who they really are and what they want for themselves.
But does a relationship have to END in order for you to find yourself again?
Isn’t there a way to stay in touch with who you are and what you really want and need in life, while staying in a relationship and making that relationship WORK to bring out your authentic self?
The answer is YES, THERE IS.
I’m going to show you how in this email.
The question I want to ask yourself right now is, are you being as true to yourself right now as you can be?
Is your relationship with your man the most passionate, connected and HONEST that it can be?
If you’re not feeling as connected to your true and best self right now, I will give you some tips on how you can start on the RIGHT PATH to “getting your groove” back and becoming a happier, more fulfilled person, no matter what is happening in your life right now.
No matter if you’re in a relationship that works, or you’re single, or if you’re having issues in your relationship that is standing in the way of your happiness.
These tips will enable you to:
- WAKE UP that youthful and playful woman you used to be. If you’ve “lost” your inner playfulness, you probably spend a lot of time feeling judgmental, pessimistic and tired in your head.
- Getting back in touch with that playful part of your soul will allow you to enjoy life no matter what it’s throwing your way.
- Get what you want out of your relationships: more honesty, more attention, more fun, more sharing.
- Stop feeling ENVIOUS of other women who have better bodies, better boyfriends, better love lives, more money or less stress.
Are you ready to get your groove back in 3 simple tips? Great, here we go…
Tip #1: BE SILLY
Do you ever feel worried that you’re not being the perfect friend, partner, or mother?
Does worrying about whether or not you’re doing things the RIGHT way make you feel defensive and uptight about every little thing that doesn’t go the way you think it should go?
These are symptoms of having lost your “inner child” and your ability to just LET GO and enjoy and accept yourself and your life for what it IS, not for what you think it “should” be.
When you take a deep breath and do something SILLY and spontaneous for a change, it will open you up in ways you can’t even imagine.
Kick off your shoes and go running through the grass…
Dance with your child and spin them around until they’re dizzy with laughter…
Start a food fight in your kitchen with your boyfriend …
These are all ways to let go of all the “shoulds” in your life and just live in the moment.
Here’s the problem with those “shoulds” by the way.
They keep you from being true to who you really are, deep inside, because you’re constantly worrying about what OTHER people think.
If you get stuck there too long, pretty soon you’ll start to feel like you don’t know who you are or what will make you happy.
So do something silly and spontaneous and don’t worry about how you’ll look or what people will think. Just be your true self.
TIP #2: GIVE WHAT YOU’RE YEARNING FOR
Let’s say you haven’t gone out with your girlfriends in a long, long time. And you feel disconnected.
Or maybe your man hasn’t made any special date plans for what seems like weeks, and you’re in a low-energy rut in your relationship.
Or you’re single and feeling pretty lonely and down and wish you could find a decent man to share your time with.
Instead of complaining to yourself about how your friends aren’t calling you, or your man isn’t being romantic or caring, or how hard it is to meet a man, make it a point to actually start GIVING the exact thing you want.
Call your friends and invite them to do something you enjoy doing together.
Plan a weekend getaway with your man and surprise him with it.
Smile and be engaging to everyone you encounter in your day – the grocery store clerk, your co-workers, your boss, your neighbors – and you’ll be amazed at how much less isolated and lonely you’ll feel.
And the best part about GIVING what you want for yourself is that you get so much MORE back in the long run.
When you put yourself “in service” to others, by helping them, by really LISTENING instead of just talking, by offering your advice or talents to make their lives better and happier…you will begin to feel more fulfilled and valued… and happy… and you will begin to reap the rewards for all that positive energy immediately.
Tip # 3 TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR LIFE
When you take care of your own needs and your own future, you will feel less envious of the people around you who you think have it easier and better than you have.
Here’s something I’ve noticed about people and even about myself sometimes – the things that you ENVY in others, are the things you know you’re neglecting in your OWN life.
Your envy is a sign that you are denying that aspect of yourself and that you need to pay more attention to it and fix it in yourself.
For example, if you see the with self-righteousness and envy over every single well-dressed, sexy woman who walks by you and your man, it’s probably likely that you aren’t feeling so hot about yourself.
Maybe you know you haven’t put as much effort into your appearance and wellbeing as you should, so instead of admitting that to yourself, you feel a deep sense of negativity and envy for anyone you perceive as having it “more together” in that area.
The same can be said for things like wealth and success. If you envy someone’s success, it’s probably because you know you’re not doing everything you can to create that personal success in your own life.
You know you’re not doing everything you should to make yourself happy. It doesn’t have to be about money.
The key to feeling less envy and less negativity toward others is to BE HONEST about your shortcomings and then take responsibility for your own life to get things back on track.
So what do these 3 tips have in common?
They are all about refocusing your attention and energy from the destructive, negative feelings and thought patterns that make you feel inauthentic and down about your life, and turning things around so that you get back in touch with that deeper, WISER part of yourself so you can feel happier and less STAGNANT.
The tips for getting your groove back are just a few of the amazing ideas that I recently discovered through a conversation I had with a new friend of mine named Alana Pratt.
Alana is a captivating storyteller and gifted personal coach whose specialty is making moms and working women feel sexy again. She is also a professional speaker and has appeared on TV and hosts her own radio show called “How Mama Got Her Groove Back.”
She shared the story of how she overcame feeling powerless and miserable after her marriage ended and she got it together to becoming the happy, sexy and successful woman she is today.
As I interviewed Alana, she revealed a TON of wisdom and insight through her own personal journey and through the experiences and success stories her own clients have had.
Here are just some of the other tips and strategies that she shared during our interview:
— A unique, 3-step question and answer exercise that you can do with your partner or friend that builds a more INTIMATE CONNECTION, and opens up honesty and communication in a SAFE and positive way
— How to tell by your own BODY LANGUAGE whether or not you’re being truly authentic in any given situation…with a man, at work, with your friends…or if you’re just pretending everything is OK when it’s not. (This is important for staying “true” to your values and beliefs so you don’t SETTLE for a man, a bad job, etc.)
–Why men often seek out new sex partners and how you can AFFAIR-PROOF your relationship and have MORE FUN and more sensuality with your man at the same time.
–Why men often feel inhibited from being their true, passionate and MASCULINE selves when they get physical with a woman…and how you can get him to open up and TURN UP the passion in your sex life.
— If he’s being DISTANT and you’re not connecting the way you used to…try this simple approach to re-connecting that will ENGAGE him and energize your relationship, without being a “drag” or causing misunderstandings and fights.
–What to do if you’re a mom or busy professional and you feel like you’re in a RUT with your marriage or relationship…simple and fun ways to bring the playfulness back.
–The one quality in a woman that a man finds INTOXICATING…and makes him wonder about you and want to be around you as much as possible…learn to develop this quality today.
— 6 ways to get your groove back and switch from feeling needy and lonely to being AUTHENTIC and full of energy and enthusiasm for life again.
— Wondering if he’s interested in you or not? A simple tip for what to do if you’re not clear about where his head is at.
— 3 easy steps for getting BALANCE back in your relationship…if you’re feeling like you’re always GIVING to a distant or preoccupied man, what to do so you can get your needs met without resentment and blaming.
— How to get the attention and connection you are craving in your life if you feel lonely–and attract people wherever you go.
— A powerful technique for releasing stored NEGATIVE ENERGY or anger from yesterday or from a past relationship…so you can “get clarity” and move on to enjoy your relationship today.
— And much more…
There’s no reason why you need to spend another day feeling down on the way your life and your relationship are going.
There are proven and effective techniques for accessing that CORE part of you that will enable you to feel more enthusiastic and sexy — no matter what.
I really want you to learn those techniques and start to be the best, sexiest and most vibrant woman you can be…for yourself AND for the man in your life.
That’s why listening to my interviews with experts, therapists and life coaches like Alana can make a HUGE difference in the way you feel about yourself.
If you’re a subscriber to my “Interviews With Dating And Relationship Experts” series, you probably already know the value of learning new and inspiring love and life tips every single month.
You’ll be getting your next installment – my interview with Alana -in your mailbox very soon.
If you’re NOT a subscriber to my series, then find out how to get your free trial and a CD recording of my interview with Alana right here:
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- 2 Free Bonus Audio Interviews with two of my favorite experts who do amazing work helping women like you find the love and relationship you really want
- A new interview each month, with a new expert or author on the topic of dating, relationships, communication or attraction…But only if you decide to stay with the program. You can cancel anytime.
But only if you sign up right NOW.
Because after midnight on March 8th, I stop shipping the interview with Alana and it will no longer be available through this series.
And you wouldn’t want to miss all that great stuff she revealed…
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One of the BENEFITS of learning how to get back in touch with your authentic self and accessing that “inner child” -besides just feeling better about yourself– is that it makes you more ATTRACTIVE and draws a man to you.
You see, when it comes to being the kind of woman that a man really wants, simply “being nice” and accommodating, or being predictable and doing and saying the same things the same way every day, will quickly put you in the “she’s not the one” category in a man’s mind.
Here’s the scary part – once you fall into that category, you can get STUCK in there forever.
You don’t want a man to think that he can find someone else who will make him feel the passion and excitement that he used to feel…but isn’t feeling any more.
You want to be the kind of woman who INSPIRES a man’s deepest and most powerful feelings of love and devotion… simply through the things you do and say to keep him wondering and thinking about you.
You want to be the kind of woman who sparks the kind of emotions in a man that he can’t help but to worship and adore you, naturally and without a lot of effort.
No “fixing,” no talking about the relationship, no convincing him that it should be working better than it is.
It will just happen.
There will be no more fear of commitment on his part, because he’ll realize he won’t want to lose someone like you.
When you watch my “Natural & Lasting Attraction” CD/DVD program, it will all become crystal clear for you. You will finally know what it takes to attract a man for the long-term.
So if you’re looking for the quickest way to have a man feeling and experiencing real love for you, so he can’t help but shower you with attention and appreciation, then here’s the fastest and easiest way to make it happen:
Oh, and here’s my special bonus for you for sticking with me and wanting to learn everything you can about how to feel better and be more ATTRACTIVE and INSPIRING to a man.
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- A CD of my interview with personal coach Alana Pratt, yours to keep no matter what you decide.
- 2 Free Bonus interviews (also yours to keep no matter what you decide)
- A brand new and exciting interview sent to your mailbox every month to listen to and enjoy for as long as you want. Cancel anytime.
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So remember – go to this link and order before midnight on March 8th and learn what it takes to be the MOST attractive, vibrant and sexy woman you can possibly be:
Meanwhile, I hope that you start to use and apply those “3 Tips for Getting Your Groove Back” in your life…starting today!
I’ll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love,
P.S. Recently I sent out a survey asking what you felt was your biggest frustration with men.
The response I received from my readers was overwhelming!
More than 800 of you wrote me and told me what it is that is keeping you from fully connecting and understanding the man in your life.
I discovered that many of you wish you could:
- Communicate what you want or need from a man without making him withdraw
- Know why men sometimes stray from good, loving relationships
- Why men seem to have such a hard time expressing how they feel or just being HONEST about where they’re “coming from”
I took your questions very seriously.
So seriously, in fact, that I will be answering the most common questions you posed in an upcoming special event I’m doing at the end of this month:
WHAT: Christian Carter 2 Day Live Event
WHERE: Sheraton Gateway in Los Angeles, CA
WHEN: March 29th and 30th, 2008
WHO: Me, some amazing guests, and You
I’m doing just one live event this year, so save your place now by going here:
What’s this live event all about?
It’s all about what men think, and how to turn around a good relationship you’re in that’s having some trouble.
If you join me in this live event, I’ll share with you how to:
- Understand men’s biggest wants, desires and hang-ups around real loving relationships
- Create the relationship you want with a man
- Take any good relationship that’s going through tough times and quickly turn it around- without the fussing or fighting
- And lots more
All this in an amazing and inspiring live 2 day event you won’t want to miss out on.
To sign up or get more details, go here:
*Note- I want you to join me for this all new live seminar experience, but it’s filling up fast.
Space for this one time event is limited to a small number. That way I can make sure and get some more personal and one-on-one time to work with you and answer some specific questions too.
If you know you’ve wanted to be at one of my live events, and you get that understanding how men think and respond in relationships is going to dramatically help you in your love life… then I suggest you reserve your place at this event right now.
You can sign up now right at the link below. And hopefully there are still spaces available when you get this.
Hope to see you there!