Have you ever had a man break up with you and you felt it was because he was “afraid of commitment”, or that he just wasn’t “ready”?
Or maybe you’ve been in a relationship with a man who didn’t leave… but inside you knew he wasn’t really as committed or in love as you were and it caused all kinds of tension and worry?
If you’ve ever been in this kind of situation with a man, then you know how it feels to become less and less certain and satisfied as you spend more and more time and energy on your relationship.
I’m about to share with you the 3 simple steps of how you can completely AVOID this painful and frustrating situation in the future… and turn around any current relationship that has this going on.
First, let me ask you something important-
Do men really just not like being in open, loving, committed relationships with women?
And are men really and truly afraid of commitment?
Well, here’s something fascinating I want you to think about…
Like most women, I’m sure you’ve seen the situation where a man was totally convinced that he was happy being a single bachelor…
But when the right woman came along, it was as if EVERYTHING changed in an instant.
All the old beliefs the guy had about being single simply went out the window.
And all of a sudden he was completely taken with the idea of being with this one woman.
HE was the one “courting” and pursuing HER, when he had sworn to remain single and “free” days or weeks ago.
Give me a silent nod if you know what I’m talking about and you’ve seen this happen.
It seems certifiably crazy, right?
Why is it that men change their minds so quickly and so radically?
And why can’t they be more consistent, more honest, and know what they want?
The reality is that when most men are acting “unavailable” or not “ready” for a relationship, it’s often NOT because they are afraid of a real relationship or COMMITMENT.
I know, I know. I can just see you rolling your eyes in frustration right now because you’ve seen so much “proof” in your life that men really are afraid of love and real relationships.
I want you to suspend your disbelief here for a second.
Here’s the thing…
I’m going to give it to you straight as a man…
When a man acts completely uninterested in a real relationship, or doesn’t want to commit, could it be that maybe… just maybe…it has NOTHING to do with his fear of commitment?
What if is SOMETHING ELSE entirely?
Think about it for a second…
When a man physically leaves or emotionally withdraws from a relationship, the common response most women have is to think of all the reasons why he did this and what it means about HIM.
Here’s a few common examples of this kind of thinking:
“He’s got commitment issues.”
“He’s just not emotionally mature.”
“He’s not ready.”
“He was intimidated by me and afraid of the real love we have.”
“He still needs to go out and play with other women before he’ll be able to be with one woman.”
If you’re like LOTS of women I’ve known and talked to, then you’ve have had these same thoughts when one of YOUR relationships was in jeopardy or ended.
The REAL TRUTH is that when someone pulls away from or leaves a relationship, BOTH partners play a role.
It’s not simply that the man is afraid of love or commitment.
And sure… guys can SAY AND DO things to make you think they’re afraid of commitment, like pull away emotionally, or do things to make a more committed relationship difficult.
But this doesn’t mean that what they’re telling you or how you perceive their actions represents what they’re REALLY thinking and feeling.
In other words, a man being distant, afraid of the future, or acting indifferent is just a symptom of how a man FEELS when he’s around you.
Men are emotional too – just in different ways and at different times.
So where am I going with all this?
Here’s where I land the plane…
I’m about to reveal a surprising truth that might sting.
It’s like a shot from the doctor – it’ll hurt for a few seconds, but it’s good for your health.
Here’s the “shot”…
Most women play a huge part in DRIVING MEN AWAY from perfectly good relationships.
Of course, if you are one of the women who does this, you usually have little or no idea that you’re doing this.
In fact, you’re COMPLETELY UNCONSCIOUS of your part in pushing a man away because you’re too busy thinking that all your words, emotions, and actions are supposed to be bringing a man closer to you.
And you behave in subtle ways that, little by little, push the man farther and farther away.
Well, what if there were just a few simple steps, THREE to be exact, that if you followed would act like an INSURANCE POLICY against ever driving a man away from you and making him less interested in a future with you?
What if you could double or even triple the likelihood of a quality man “sticking around” long enough to create a solid, exciting, authentic, secure relationship full of passion and connection?
I’m here to tell you that there REALLY IS a simple 3 step process for allowing an amazing relationship to blossom in your life, no matter where things happen to be right now.
It’s right here:
STEP #1: CREATE A SPACE
If you make space, lean back and stop pressuring a man or asking him for more time,more affection, more commitment, more connection… the man will naturally start to gravitate toward you.
After all, he did really like you to begin with.
What’s getting in the way of that now?
Think about it.
Now, the first step here is to have a clear idea of what you want…say it’s to have the man come to you and connect with you on a more meaningful and affectionate level. Maybe he’s been focused on something at work or he’s been tired and you feel a little neglected or left out.
Or, maybe you feel like you want a more solid commitment from him, but he isn’t bringing it up or even acting like it’s on his mind at all. So you want him to talk to you about how he feels about you and where it’s going.
Great, now all you have to do is LEAN BACK and create a space for that. Allow your man to come and fill that space you’ve just created.
You see, if you want something from a man, the worse thing you can do is try to manipulate him with nuances and vague words, talk him into it, criticize him or demand something from him.
This rarely gets you want you want, and it just drives a man further into his shell.
If you want a man to come to YOU and to beg YOU to be with him, then you need to pull back and create the kind of space for it.
How?
You can do this by focusing on your friends or your work or the things you enjoy for a while and simply NOT WORRYING about what the man is thinking about you and the relationship.
Just enjoy yourself and enjoy life and let him come to you.
Enjoy your relationship. Enjoy the time you spend together. Do it without worrying about the “what if’s” and the “what about’s.”
IMPORTANT: Resist the urge to “check in” or get frustrated if things aren’t happening quickly enough and he’s not connecting with you in the way you are hoping.
The goal here is not to bottle everything up and then “explode” in one big mess because he’s not “getting it.”
The idea is to simply let it go and enjoy your life and let HIM come to you, and let HIM be the one to ask for something deeper and more meaningful from you.
Tip: I’ve also referred to this concept before in my newsletters and other programs as the “Convincer” and “Resistor” role. If you’d like to read more in-depth about what this is and how this dynamic is one of the most common ways that women ACCIDENTALLY push a man away, you can read about it on page 103 of my e-book, “Catch Him & Keep Him.”
In my e-book I explain why this is such an easy trap to fall into and WHY men naturally tend to “resist” any plea for engaging in a more committed, real, “serious” relationship.
You can be reading it in minutes when you click here and order your online copy of my e-book now:
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Ok, back to it. The other step you can take to give a man that “forever” feeling for you is to:
STEP #2. AVOID MANAGING OR CRITICIZING HIM
One of the most common ways that women drive men away is by constantly identifying MISTAKES a man is making, or ways that a man makes them UNHAPPY, or what he SHOULD be doing, and pointing these out all the time, over and over, without prompting or warning.
How do you know if you’re doing this?
Ask yourself if you’ve ever said these kinds of things to a man:
“Maybe you should (insert piece of advice here).”
“How come you haven’t done that yet?”
“Why did you do that? Now everything is screwed up.”
“I hate it when you do that.”
Whenever the context of what you’re saying fits this tone, the man will feel that you are judging or criticizing him, or that he is doing something that’s making you unhappy.
He’ll feel this way even if your INTENTION wasn’t to criticize or judge.
If you do this enough, you might make a man feel MORE AFRAID of your relationship, or MORE FEARFUL of his ability to make you feel good, and thus feel good about himself as your partner.
He’ll start to wonder if being in the Relationship is the right thing for both of you, and he’ll start pulling away or withdrawing.
STEP #3. BE INTER-DEPENDENT, NOT INDEPENDENT
You give up a lot when you choose to be in a relationship.
You give up having to only worry about how you feel and what you want.
You give up eating only what YOU like to eat all the time.
You give up having your own space with your own stuff.
You give up only thinking of the consequences to YOU when you make major life decisions.
When you are in a relationship, and you want it to be successful, you have to find a way to incorporate your needs with HIS needs, and the needs of the “relationship” too.
For many smart, independent women this can be a challenge when they’re in a relationship.
They believe that being “independent” is a trait that men value in a woman.
And for the most part, they’re right.
Men who like “independent” women see it as being the opposite of “needy” and “clingy.”
An independent woman is a woman who can stand on her own two feet and doesn’t need CONSTANT APPROVAL from a man.
The kind of independent woman that men like is a woman who isn’t afraid to be herself, and to do the things that are fulfilling to her, such as spending time with her friends or enjoying a certain hobby.
But for many women, being “independent” means something a little different. To them, it means not NEEDING a man. It means having their own life and doing their own thing, regardless of what a man wants or thinks.
This kind of thinking can lead to all kinds of misunderstandings and strain in a relationship.
Because you see, being totally “independent” from Your partner and only acting on your OWN needs and desires becomes a negative that sometimes threatens the connection you share.
Instead of being “independent” in that context, be INTER-dependent, which means that you BALANCE your needs and desires WITH HIS in a respectful and mutually-enhancing way.
This means that you consider what the relationship needs before you consider what YOU need or what he needs. I think a lot of bad feelings could be avoided if this was something everyone thought about whenever they hit a rough spot with their partner.
If they could just ask themselves, “What’s right for the relationship, not just for me?
So the next time you go head-to-head over something and you hit an impasse, ask yourself, “What’s right for US, not just for me (or him)?”
Those are the 3 simple steps that you can take today to help turn your relationship from being a source of worry and frustration for you, to being much easier and more connected.
And if you want an even more detailed and in-depth program that you can watch and listen to on CD that could help you transform your relationship from that “casual” stage where a man is UNCERTAIN and going back and forth from wanting to be with you and wanting his “freedom”… there’s something I STRONGLY recommend you check out.
There are specific ways you can tap into that side of a man that will open him up to being the one who starts planning your future with you and talks about all the benefits of a SECURE and COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP together.
And you can “shift” things with a man more quickly and with less “work” than you ever thought possible.
But only if you know how to communicate with a man around the whole concept of COMMITMENT… and show him how it’s completely in HIS best interest…without pleading, convincing or manipulation.
A man will be OPEN to the idea of commitment if you know the NEGATIVE TRIGGERS to avoid that activate a man’s DOUBT and FEAR about you and your relationship together.
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I’ll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love.
Your Friend,
Christian Carter
Lynn says
this was really helpful.!
moni says
love your advice..thank you!!!I was totally pushing him away!!
nikki says
this is so helpful.. i just have to keep reminding myself of these tips… as hard as it will be… illl give it my best tho before he is gone!!! :(
nikki says
btw this is for the one man of my life… my heart belongs to him… james w.. love u..xx
cj, 34 says
Yep… I’ve done some of the things listed above to a man I fell head over heels for; I want him back, badly!!! I will definitely give this advice a try!!! :) Thank you soooo much!!!
Eliana says
this is true..
Very helpful!
rachel says
i am 14 years old and i cant believe im actually reading this lol
hopfully it will help.
hope it helps everyone else
peace.
Stephanie says
Wow here’s a question… what if theres someone he met and now he’s intersted in her. BUUUt she is totally not intersted in him. Also what if he wants your help to get with that girl? (evil music comes on) well answer that haha PLease!
Nora says
i guess i can answer you ;p !!
well in that way you should help him and be closer to him and tell him that she is great + you should act in a good way with him and be sweet and helpful, this way you are going to make him like you and get closer to you !! ( when he see that you are not that interested in him he would do any thing to let you interested in him )
so just give it a try, and if things didn’t work out then maybe you’re not meant to be together ( sorry ) :( !!
i wish things work with you guys…
Maria says
I’m usually a quiet and shy girl who lost her boyfriend because he started to view me as a friend instead of a lover…would this trick work for me?
He’s a special boy who values a girls need and treats girls well…
Niquii says
wiw. suprisingly i did everything that his article said not to. but with the help of my friends, i involuntarily opened my eyes to the loser(the guy) in front of me
Heather says
i really hope this works…. ya im 13 and i just lost my bf and i soooo want him back… my first love<3
BLD says
Why should women be so interested in how to get a man all of the time? Why don’t men step up and figure out how to please a woman!
Brittany says
That just helped EVERYTHING. You made my day :)
Cohen. says
OMG YOU’RE AMAZING!
No wonder he wasn’t sure about our relationship anymore, everything i was doing was wrong!! Thank you SOOOO muchh!!!!
Dina says
THANK YOU, Christian! You helped a lot!
Clair says
All of those apply to me. Sadly… I broke up with my boyfriend of over 3 years and now I want him back. I want him to want me back :) thank you for you advice!
Melissa says
This article is really ironic. About 20 minutes ago, i was blown up on my ex about how we still see each other as friends, but I know now that Carter’s article is right, but that doesn’t mean every man will always be right. Sadly, I don’t think it’s even going to work out between us anymore. But i’ll just play it cool and move on.
Melissa says
This article is really ironic. About 20 minutes ago, i was blown up on my ex about how we still see each other as friends, but I know now that Carter’s article is right, but that doesn’t mean every man will always be right. Sadly, I don’t think it’s even going to work out between us anymore. But i’ll just play it cool and move on. I’m too adult for these childish ways. So Christian Carter let’s roll the dice…..
Whether the tips work or not.
Getting back WITH him isn’t my concern.
BUT getting back AT him is my concern.
Men should learn how to love and please women, women should not always have to suck up and play the ideal domestic housewife all the time. There needs to be equality.
Kisha says
wow… I been pushing this man away religiously doing all 3 mistakes rolled in one… ALMOST every 2 weeks! wow! no wonder he doesnt care anymore
Dess says
Wow I’ve done all 3 of these things to my ex lately. Ladies we know why we nag and are clingy to them, we just want all their love and affection and they are giving us enough of it. The 3 steps he wants us to take is how my ex is acting now. How do we reverse roles if I’ve already made these mistakes?
Jackie says
I hope it’s not too late.
natalicious says
This is good advice…..But i have always said (even tho i dont do it all the time) if u have a row with a guy then dont panic and call txt ect that WILL push him away….just think o well and trust me he WILL call no matta what unless obv hes a player coz he just wud call for a bit of hanky panky
Amanda says
Wow, Ive been upset and crying and blaming him for everything.
I thought everything was going okay.
When he randomly just stopped replying as I kept on blaming him, texting him nonstop, called him over and over again just to be rejected and ignored.
This was us trying it out again. Because we both felt a deep connection at one point.
But i kept on crying out about how i wish things were the way they were before.
I must’ve been so annoying. I think he couldnt take it anymore and wanted some space.
Is there any way I can get him back one day? maybe soon?
mayumi says
The Best Advice.. i even add this on my bookmarts bar..is good to read this over once a while :) keep myself refresh ..
imo says
the guy that i was seeing has pushed me away. One of the reasons i think is because of the pressure we have had to be officialy together from our friends. He says it has put him off and he thinks it has put me off as well. I really want me and him to work out but I dont know what to do. Another reason I think he has pushed me away is becuase of him ex girlfriend, I think he is so hung up with the past that hes not letting me in.
Please help!
EmmaB says
What a load of tripe. sorry but i think its awful that women read this and think THEY are doing something wrong all the time.
i could have followed this article to the last work, but i know it would have got me no where. no matter how much space i gave him or ‘time’, i gave him time with no nagging, or pushing etc and he still didnt step up to the relationship and do things for me like a boyfiend should. he took all he could and gave nothing back.
my advise ladies?
If he isnt worth it without all these tips and mind games (which is what this is realy, because its an article about controlling our emotions rather than expressing them) then he just is not worth it!
no women should have feel SHE is responsible for how her man treats her.
thanks
C'hloe(; says
Well I’m A Teenager And I Have Similar Problems I Will Try All These Of It Don’t Work Love Will Be No More For Me.. Wish Me Luck Chris Who Wrote This Article (:
Shorty says
All I have to say is that I agree with BLD and EmmaB. Do you want to know how much time I wasted reading articles about what I can do/say to make things better or to get him back? A LOT! And how much time do you think he spent thinking about “us” and what he did wrong throughout the relationship… Not a whole lot! I’m sure he wasn’t thinking about my feelings when he put me last and when he was ignoring my calls/texts. It’s a shame that everything has to be done on the guys time and when it’s conventient for them. That isn’t a relationship in my mind. When I call/text, he should answer or respond within a reasonible time frame and I should have a right to get mad when he doesn’t. I shouldn’t have to hide my emotions because it may “drive him away” if I yell at him or nag him because I couldn’t get in contact with him. Yet, whenever I don’t respond to him, he isn’t too happy with me and let’s me know it. I’m sure if his boss yelled at him at work about something, he wouldn’t go into his shell and ignore the issue… HE WOULD CHANGE HIS ACTION/S TO SOLVE THE ISSUE! Well guess what, he should be doing the same in his relationship and not go into his “man cave” because he doesn’t like “being nagged, blamed, have to show feelings and emotions, etc.” Guys have got to start stepping up and us women should not have to hide our emotions in fear of getting rejected or the silent treatment. Guys are just as much to blame for the issues, yet it seems like women are the ones responsible for pushing them away.
What makes it even worse is that after you’re done with these guys, they have a habit of coming back into our lives and we give them the benefit of the doubt because he think that maybe that lightbulb went off in their head and they realized what I great girl they had only to have the same thing happen again… and again. And then we read all this hoopla on how we should act and think if we do the steps listed above that we can keep him..
Basically, us women should think about everything we say to make sure we aren’t saying it in a way that will pull the guy away while the guy never has to think about anything or worry about the way he treats us because it’s our fault and we should just let him be because that’s the way men are… Yea, that seems fair and that seems like a great way to live life walking on eggshells so that we don’t say the wrong thing at the wrong time… I’ll be sure to try that next time. Along with a nice glass of wine and xanax so that I won’t be able to feel anything.
CDGrove says
Ladies , Do you want to keep your man?
Try not to control him -negotiate/reason/make agreement.
And, don`t “flip out” -if at all possible-you pretty ones especially.
The nicer looking ones, seem to have the worst tempers,from my observation.
Just some advice from a man that knows.
Confused says
so, I have one of the nicest guy friends in the world, calls or text back 100% of the time, immediately. (cause I have a pet peeve when I am ignored, that everyone knows about) Weve made jokes about getting married, and moving to together, and recently went to a wedding and even bought our gift together. It wasnt till about 3 months ago that all the flirting and stuff made me really start thinking maybe we had somthing, he brought it up first, because I am not so subtle and said he didnt want a realtionship at that point, he was newly single and wanted to enjoy it. That was fine with me, we had been friends before I started to like him. So after the wedding, we were together the whole time, and he made more jokes about having a comfterble future together..blah blah. I kind of exploded. I said it wasnt fair of him to put me in a ‘friend zone’ then act that way. Then we didnt talk for a week and a half, and the last couple days I had begun to worry he was mad at me, he said he was just giving me my space. (I am aware, and I feel like I sound clingy , just how I am with everyone) so after we ‘made up’ I backed off, as long as I knew he wasnt mad at me I was fine, I didnt call I didnt text, we kinda comented on eachothers facebooks, but that was all. its been two weeks and we hardly spoke, yesterday was the first time we really talked and he sounded kinda gaurded, and I felt like I pushed him completly away, then today we were talking casually like old times again. Like everything was forgoten and we were back to normal. So if I dont bring it up again..were gonna be okay? Honestly Id rather keep my amaizing friend than push him away trying to make him want me.
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mary says
SO HELPFUL! You just like told me everything I was doing.. crazy! hahahah this is great.
Diane says
This was really helpful. but i mean. you should make one for guys that show every sign of effection and wake up the next morning on a wim and break up with you. we go to different schools and talk when we get a chance which is usually night time but i dont nag or anything so 1 is down. When he wants to do something else i support him not say whats wrong with him and when were making plans it both of us not just me.
so i dont know what happened but if you have any idea why guys would just turn around like that post a reply or something =]
p.s. He said he doesnt want to wreck our ‘friendship’……
heartbroken says
Well I feel like this could possibly help me. I mean I felt that I did all those things but at the same time there was a reason. I feel that I shouldn’t have to look for advice to fix the relationship, that he should do his part and help fix it too. We have been together for 3 years and then some and we were eachothers first everything and the longer we stay together the moore I feel connected to him but it seems he’s drifting farther away. I feel like its impossible to go each day without him,he’s like my bestfriend, literally my other half, and for him to just go away its like someone important to me just died. I just don’t understand how he can’t feel the way I feel. There just to many memories, to many things that were said and done for it to all go away. I have let him do the most meaniest things to me and he has hurt me in everyway possible but I always forgave him for that bcus I know there is good inside of him somewhere but it seems that it isn’t enough to keep him around. I have always been there for him, got him out of tough situations, he always had my shoulder to cry on, and when he needed me I always put everyone and everything aside for him…and now he needs space and starting to talk badly to me. I don’t understand, if anyone can I would love to hear your advice????
Anon says
me & this guy, werent dating but we were “dealing” which means acting like were dating but were not.. for three months. just last week, i had a party and he came. and we ended up “doing it”. 3 days after that, he dipped. ended everything with me. and now its possible he got me pregnant. i dont know what i should do. because obviously i still love him. obviously i want to be with him, but i dont know what i did wrong, i acctually did NOTHING wrong, and i dont know how to get him back.
Bailey says
What if he’s the one doing things and not caring about what I think? Then what?
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jade says
i want my boyfriend matt back soooo bad but im only 13 && i think im in love with him ?
Trixie says
To Heartbroken: first of all I feel so sad when I read your letter, because I really do believe that men have to learn to stop being so insensitive. I think that what some people have said is true, somewhere “men have to step up” and take initiative to make the relationship work, instead of women having to walk on eggshells and “figure” them out. If they don’t want to discuss anything then they should go out with a guy! If they want to be with women then they have to put in some effort too. But till that changes, I guess using C. Carter’s methods are the best bet right now. I know the suggestions explained a lot to me. Perhaps they will also give you a sense of your own self-worth. I often think that using “strategies” are the best route to take in order to understand later on what we need to know about the emotional stuff. Let’s face it, men will almost “never” initiate a talk. Men say women nag, but we have to because nothing would ever be said or discussed (why can’t they understand that?) Unfortunately for us this doesn’t get us the “results” we want. So I guess we have to figure out a new way. (I don’t know how they function in “guy world” to be able to get along, seriously!). Anyway, it seems obvious you’ve been doing all the sacrificing, this indicates you have a big and forgiving heart and are committed. You’re a treasure. You just have to see it and come back to you right now. I think that’s what it means when C. Carter says to give them space; it gives you the opportunity to focus on “you” and all your wonderful qualities, and who knows, perhaps someone even better will be grateful for your generous heart. Hope things have gotten better since March. All the best.
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Jennifer says
What if yous are already broke up after 2 years, he broke up with me about 4 days ago over “silly fights, he didnt want to see me cry anymore over them” i knew the fights could have easily been worked on, the break up was hard he was crying and told me he’ll always love me but the thing is hes not contacting me at all and when i ask him how he is or suggest this just being a break he tells me i’m making it harder.. :s im really lost hope someone can help.x
Kitty says
Wow! This should help me lots! Me and my X decided to be friends after a big misuderstanding, that we cleared up, but he might never get over it… I was sooo clingy to him wanting him back! >_< Plus he has been busy with his courses… No wonder I felt like it would never work! I hope I can get him to love me again :) I have never had good luck with love… No wonder! I've been doing everything wrong! I'm 15 and want him back so badly :) I loves him lots <3 I hope this helps me get him back to being all mine~! Lol, I want him all to myself, in many ways hehe ;)
had enough says
Ok, this is all fine and good advice BUT…how do you handle a guy who has been flirting with you at the office for 4 years, that you have had a working relationship with. He would send texts complimenting my new haircut and use terms of endearments. A mutal friend came into town one evening and we agreed that he would pick me up so that I wasn’t drinking and driving. Had a wonderful fun evening together that ended up with us talking about our lives and how we had been viewing each other over the past years. Yes, there was kissing involved, but that was it. Things seemed to be going well for about a week after that. We agreed to take things slow and he told me not to let my mind wander. Don’t really know to this day what the heck that meant but anyhow, he saifd that he was being open and honest with me and that I was very special (my dog is “very special”!). He even talked about going to Vegas with me. To make a long story short…he hasn’t “talked” to me other than a hi/bye thing when he comes into the office. Not one text. He’s been busy, I get that, but absolutely no communication what-so-ever? Come on! Its been 6 weeks! I’ve asked him to meet me for a beer on a couple occassions and he was busy. I get that he owes me nothing and really all I expected was some conversation to get to know each other. Isn’t that how its suppose to go?!
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