Comments on: Why Men Don’t Call After A Few Great Dates

By: Franko

Franko — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 04:53:58 +0000

God I can’t stand your writing style. Learn how to write a continuous paragraph with more than two sentences. I swear, your article is waaay too long to have each sentence its own paragraph…I can’t make it past the first few lines. It just sucks so bad. Your content seems like it’d be interesting, but I don’t want to read what you have to say because I can’t stand the way you say it. Learn how to write!

By: barb

barb — Sat, 17 Sep 2011 14:27:00 +0000

Hi
I went out with a man for 4 years about 15 years ago. We broke up mutually. Last July he called me after 11 years. He moved to another state but was planning on moving back to New York where he previously lived. He wanted to take me out to dinner when he got to N.Y. in a few months . We spoke at length a few times a week. He sent me airline tickets to see him but I didn’t go because my father was gravely ill. I received flowers fro him on Valentines Day and other occasions. The last time I spoke with him was 6/25/11 the day my mother died. What is his problem ???

By: Elaine

Elaine — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 13:15:43 +0000

very good hank you

By: Elena

Elena — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 02:08:10 +0000

Hello… I met this guy at a club for my birthday. he asks for my number and he sends me a text the next day after. Our first date we had an amazing night, took me out for dinner and then we went out for a walk at the park near his house. He kissed me and we continue kissing until we figure out the time was late. After that we would continue talking and texting. then he again asks me on a second date, the 2nd date we had dinner and drinks he took me to the beach and we sort of started making out, then he drove me home and we continue making out. By our fourth date, we went for drinks and we started making out in his car, I asked him what did he thought of me? He saids to me that he enjoy talking to me and he thought that I was a person with very good feelings, I didnt say anything else and we continue making out until he then sugested to go to a motel, so we did, and yes we had sex… After all that he puts his pants on and sat on the chair for a while, all of the sudden he saids to me that he wants to live, I said “Are you serious?” He saids “yes”. So I got up, I have to admit I was upset, and he asks me if I was upset, I said “no, of course not” I got dressed and we left. On the way to my house He was trying to make conversation with me and I tried to smile or laugh at what he was saying. He dropped me off , gave me a kiss and said he will call me tomorrow, I said of course. And He did text me, we exchange some texts. The next day I had to live out of state to pick up my kids, I text him saying that I was thinking of him and that I will miss him, he texted back saying for me to have a nice trip and drive safe.
I thanked… On saturday I texted him just said Hello and I called but no returned call or text from him. Monday came, I called him again saying how are you? give me a call when you get a chance… He then texted me back until Wednesday stating that he is sorry he was away for the weekend and forgot his charger at home and if he could call me later, I texted him back saying , Ok ..that’s cool. Didnt hear back from him that day, so the next day my fears started kicking in and I texted him saying ” Alright …my bad… I can take a hint.” The next day went to bank near where he works and for some reason I was hoping to see him, his first question was “What was that text you sent me all about”" . I apologize, I was a little upset with everything that was going on and that I was really sorry, that is not what I’m all about. He then said its okey, he offered me coffee I said yes, he brought to me and I said I was sorry again. He stated that it was okey not to worry and that he was going to call me to disscussed it later because he had to go to work. I said okey thats fine and as he was living I ask him for a kiss or hug, he kept repeating I’ll call you later okey… He never called me back that day, so 2 days later I called him but he didnt answer, I left him a friendly message, but now is been 3 days and has not returned my call. Now I am dying to call him, and I was thinking by stopping by the bank again around the same time I saw him last and prettend nothings wrong…. Please help me, I really like this guy. How do I fix it?

By: brit girl

brit girl — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 16:46:53 +0000

i met this guy over the weekend, he asked for my number and i gave it to him. i am wildly attracted to him but he still hasnt called. should i call him first or is that still tabboo…
fantastic article btw

By: AOE

AOE — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 02:47:02 +0000

so i dated this guy when i was 17 and he was 21 literally love at first sight for me but he didnt feel the same way after a few months i told him i loved him and. he instantly stopped talking to me. then he contacted me like 2 years later wanting to hangout as friends blah blah blah and i said no like 1000 times and finally gave in and now were “together” again. sometimes he wont call me for like a day or so and act like theres nothing wrong and says hes busy at work. is that normal? it bothers me cause ill give in and call him cause i like to talk to him at least once a day but he can go a day or two without talking. what should i do? is this normal? i find it hurtful

By: Ms. Ward

Ms. Ward — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 19:28:05 +0000

You are right Christen, I started dating a guy for two months that suddely wanted to see me durning the week and disappeared on weekends. I was becoming weekday girl and he would call me at the last minute to see me. I don’t mind seeing a guy durning the week but its nice to spend weekends with them too. I know not every weekend you need space. I figured it out dating a guy that you haven’t spent any more weekends with and I would not hear from him for 4 days. I decided to a make a plan and it took retraint but it worked. I want to take things slow and get to know him. I do not tell him any thing about committment or where things are going. I have done the right thing by not calling or texting him, and not being available especially durning the week to see if he asks me out on a weekend for once. I starting say no durning the week that I was busy. When he texts or calls I’m being challenging and playful too with flirting. He started telling me he missed me and will wait for me. I don’t know if he means it, I will keep doing what I am doing. He finally has been calling and texting me everyday and made plans for Saturday night. Christen your plan works.

By: genie

genie — Sat, 22 Aug 2009 13:37:17 +0000

Hi please help, I recently got in touch with a boyfriend from many many years ago he invited me to visit & went to see him for four days.. we both had the best time.. I totally fell back in love with him.. when I got home he called me & said he was missing me and would come to see me soon ( we live out of state from each other) anyway I did email him some mushy emails telling him how I felt I now he hasn’t called in a week nothing I have been heartbroken beyond belief.. remember I am a grown women & this Man was the love of my life many years ago… I keep analogizing everything & don’t know what to do. I will not call him..but in my heart can not let him go. I am heartbroken. Please help.

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 03:54:47 +0000

My best friend is a bartender and wanted to get together for girls night. She was running late from her other job so she told me to meet her at the bar she worked at and she would be there ASAP. Well while I was waiting with my other girlfriends the DJ at the bar starting talking to me. I didn’t know he worked there and wasn’t really into him but the convo was great so I continued talking. My girl texted me and told me to go on without her and she would meet me at the club. So I said my goodbyes and left. Well all night the girls that worked with this DJ kept asking me what was going on with me and the DJ? I was like IDK didn’t even think about it. Well of course because they put this thought in my head I started thinking about him. My girl called and told me he was interested and so I took my best guy friend and headed up to my girls work. He asked me for my number and called me the next day but I had to get off the phone because I was out to dinner with my girl the bartender but I told him I was coming up to the bar again because It was my last night of vacation before I had to head back to work. When I was at the bar I saw him a few times and then we kissed just a peck and the sparks were flying.. The following day he texted me and I texted him back but between each text it takes him like over an hour to respond and its really irratating lol. So I texted him again and said “I want more kisses” He texted back shortly with something cute and then I texted back after that nothing all night. I called him in the evening to invite him to a concert but didn’t leave a message and still no responce. HOW DO I GET THIS GUY TO FIND ME IRRISISTABLE WHERE HE CAN’T GET ENOUGH WITHOUT SEEMING NEEDY. I haven’t found anyone I was remotely interested in until now and I don’t want to mess this up.. Any advice?

By: daisy

daisy — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 23:07:10 +0000

I going out with the Guy 9 yrs younger than
Me. Just for fun but but I’m starting to feel something for him. I liked him a lot ! Is this wrong. Should I stop seeing him or should I keep hoping someday he will want a relationships with me. Cuz he wants to sees 2 x a week just for fun ! It hurt I want more than a fuck buddy . I need advice!