Comments on: What To Know If He Wants To Stay Single http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/what-to-know-if-he-wants-to-stay-single Dating Secret by Christian Carter and more. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 02:12:49 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Bee http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/what-to-know-if-he-wants-to-stay-single/comment-page-1#comment-2222 Bee Tue, 05 Jul 2011 17:04:30 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/what-to-know-if-he-wants-to-stay-single#comment-2222 A guy and I met and spent some time together, yet still ended up getting physical fairly early. One day he asked me what I thought I saw before me in regards to him. I didn't quite know my answer at that moment, but later that week, I thought about it more and let him know via text. He replied back a couple hours later that he needed to be brutally honest with me and that he was not trying to get close/attached to me. He gave many excuses about being hurt/disappointed before and that this was the cause of his hesitancy. The next day I basically sent him an email alligning with the scenario you presented above, by letting him know that I wasn't interested in a situation where intimacy and emotions were to be absent due the unfortunate past experiences he had with other women. I gave an ultimatum of either us moving on seperately or moving on towards a different kind of experience with one another. He then proposes that we discontinue having sex so that we "could get to know eachother better" and so that "sex didnt complicate/confuse things" for him like that had in the past. At this point, I'm entirely unsure if there is a genuine purpose behind this, or is this a way to keep us emotionally detached? (basically alligning with his original request to not end up being "close/attached".) What do you think? Should I continue dating him? A guy and I met and spent some time together, yet still ended up getting physical fairly early. One day he asked me what I thought I saw before me in regards to him. I didn’t quite know my answer at that moment, but later that week, I thought about it more and let him know via text. He replied back a couple hours later that he needed to be brutally honest with me and that he was not trying to get close/attached to me. He gave many excuses about being hurt/disappointed before and that this was the cause of his hesitancy.

The next day I basically sent him an email alligning with the scenario you presented above, by letting him know that I wasn’t interested in a situation where intimacy and emotions were to be absent due the unfortunate past experiences he had with other women. I gave an ultimatum of either us moving on seperately or moving on towards a different kind of experience with one another.

He then proposes that we discontinue having sex so that we “could get to know eachother better” and so that “sex didnt complicate/confuse things” for him like that had in the past. At this point, I’m entirely unsure if there is a genuine purpose behind this, or is this a way to keep us emotionally detached? (basically alligning with his original request to not end up being “close/attached”.)

What do you think? Should I continue dating him?

]]> By: Sallie http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/what-to-know-if-he-wants-to-stay-single/comment-page-1#comment-1263 Sallie Sun, 22 Feb 2009 00:03:39 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/what-to-know-if-he-wants-to-stay-single#comment-1263 Why do this man I've knew for over two years cannt stop contacting me after he have said to me in many different ways he doesnt want a serious relationship. We have had sex in the past, but I've refused to have sex with this man for over 4 months now, and I alway refuse to go out on a date with him..but he still kepts texting me asking how I'm doing Why do this man I’ve knew for over two years cannt stop contacting me after he have said to me in many different ways he doesnt want a serious relationship. We have had sex in the past, but I’ve refused to have sex with this man for over 4 months now, and I alway refuse to go out on a date with him..but he still kepts texting me asking how I’m doing

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