Of course a woman’s job is not making a guy happy, but when you see your relationship is not working, following some of these tips really helped in the past.

At the end, the word is “confidence”, and a confident woman also knows when a relationship is not good for her and to move on.

Now I encourage other people that read this to really look at the credibility of the “Dating gurus” and”Pick-Up masters.” Many of these have not gotten high degrees in education and studied intimate relationships. What you’ll find in that many of these “Rules of getting guys” or “how to get women” are based off of STEREOTYPES, rather than scientifically validated information.

Anyways, I do not agree with your reasoning on this. Your stereotyping men and women. Each person is an individual, just because you have seen some people act a certain way, does not mean that it should be a whole warning against the entire gender. All it means is that simply: in your experience you have found men to do X and women to do Z. It does not mean that it is a general rule to apply to everyone.

Otherwise, I liked your writing style, it was very persuasive.

Why should a woman have to MAKE him happy? Men don’t MAKE us happy. I’ve been told that you have to be happy with YOURSELF MAN or WOMAN alike and until you’re happy with yourself you WON’T MAKE anyone else happy.

So Carter, what’s your advice for an alcoholic and pothead who gets defensive about everything a woman says?? Is it the woman’s job to make him happy? I don’t think so.