Comments on: How To Know If He is Serious Or Not

By: rosemary

rosemary — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 23:04:40 +0000

hi Christian.. Ok here’s the deal I am a separated 36 yr old woman who is seeing a married man! Yikes… I kw he we both have feelings for each other deeply. He says he don’t love her.. But can see us being with each other in the future,has strong feelings for me, he wants to leave his wife but in the fear of only having & seeing his boy only what the court usually appoints fathers.. He says he can’t leave his son with out seeing him every day. So my question is should I wait patiently or let go? PS… I think I love him but scared to tell him.

By: Laura

Laura — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 18:16:28 +0000

How do you tell a man that you’ve been beaten and raped?

By: doms

doms — Sat, 18 Jun 2011 11:11:06 +0000

liked ur post..it is helpful..i think i have to take more steps to try n understand him…thanks.

By: yvonne tan

yvonne tan — Fri, 29 Apr 2011 07:56:25 +0000

how to know that guy really like u or interested on u waiting for weekend call for movies or pub singsong or drinking beer.
how to know that other friend will told him all the bad things about the bad lady.
how to stop twins sister like u stop following for dating with friend or some other people i and very sick about my older sister keep check on me and asking me where are u what are u doing so sick i hate her.
please give me some space for some air ok.
i not yound anymore like that all my friend will afraid on me and runaway what can i do about and what the hell she continues to this to me.
i really cannot have a good fresh air in my life.lastime i have 3 ex-boy friend because of her i break up with my ex-boy friend very saddness and heart paintfully going to die mah.
and now my friend intruction new guy for me and she also same doing same way to me follow me where i go and try to control me time and check on me everytime i hate her.
please send her a nice guy ask her go away please.

By: Pretty

Pretty — Sun, 24 Apr 2011 17:56:46 +0000

Hey christian i have a boyfriend for 2yrs inlove and now i am born again christian believer this bf is working overses and im here in south africa how could i tell him about this issue i promise god that i can never do sex until i get married . Is he stil going to love me or he wil leave me as we have done sex before bye pretty

By: britanee

britanee — Wed, 13 Apr 2011 15:51:43 +0000

I have a question ,i have been seeing a guy for about 2 months ,started out talking on the phone then he was coming to town to see me(he lives 3 hours away) i have gone and stayed with him for a week and met his friends we had a great time he tells me how much his friends like me, and says things like”since i have been talking to you i dont even care about other girls” he basically treats me like his girlfriend even though we are not dating. So i thought it would be alright to bring up not sleeping with other people i simply said” as long as we are doing our thing i just want you to know that i am not going to sleep with anyone else” he said”ok” but wont say anything else. Im confused he gives me all the signs and says all the right things to make me think we are exclusive and now im freaked out thinking i have ruined what could have been something really amazing, please help:)

By: Shithappens

Shithappens — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 23:08:58 +0000

Hi, please advise me . Im may am landing myself into some kind of shitty situation.
Im 26 this year. 3months ago, this man approached me. He’s 37 yrs old now. He’s very smart, hes suave, hes tall and good looking, rich and owns a business. 1 of his revenue comes from another source-property investing. And thats how i gotta know him by the way.
We hang out several occasions, 4 times to be exact within this 3months?
What i hated about him was, hes so secretive! Eg: when we took pictures with his digital camera, he doesnt allow me to touch the camera at all even if i just wanted to see the pics we both took mins back.
he call and sms me when he likes it? other than that, he disappears?
i seriously wonder if he is married? and i dunno whats he’s doing in his daily life?whenever i asked him about his life and personal life, he ALWAYS says he busy and his not married blah blah..
Im not asking, nor hoping for his commitment, but at least, honesty is very important isnt it?
because of this, i disappear from him for a month. he calls and sms me quite aggresively?
today, was our 4th meeting. we had wine, dinner in town, and he brought me to one of his place? which i believes is one of his property?
we had sex. As much as i hated it, i dun want to be intimate with him, but yes. we ended up having sex. I regretted. deeply .very.
So, is he serious in me? or he’s really married but wana fool around?
I wanted to leave him so much. maybe i should.
Now, im so worried i will get pregnant.

By: babygirl

babygirl — Wed, 13 Oct 2010 16:24:38 +0000

well i have a question im dating an older guy im 23 and he is 30 its been off an on but we just kinda reconnected after break up awhile back he made the comment he could not love again the same and i really do like him but i kinda like went my own way after that we are back together kinda but its not the same im just wonderin if i should let it go or hangin there it he says hes over his ex which i do believe… she sleep around on him and he found out but i would never do that to him i have tried everything and i trying to find ways to let him know im here for him and all he says he cares for me and all but i think hes afraid to commit again he claims he wants kids etc but i just dont know how to go about it all with him since he at times can be distant but he is working on communicating better with me someone please help im in need of advice..

By: Beatuiful @34

Beatuiful @34 — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 21:21:28 +0000

Hello! I AM 34yr old independent woman who been dating this guy for the last (6)months. The relationship was okay at least i thought. After dationg for the first couple of months, i realize this could be a wonderful relationship,”enjoying his company, intimacy is good, communication was a plus”, then afterward things started turning for the worst. HE started stating “HE DONT TRUST ME”. “ITS just something about me, and it threw me for a loop, due to me thinking we were okay. Well me being the type of woman i am, i choose to remove myself from that situation. How-ever i am bewildered that the out come was a negative turn point, because i really liked this young man…………..i need some suggestions to this theory!!!!!!!!!

By: hannah

hannah — Thu, 03 Jun 2010 22:28:26 +0000

I’m 41 divorced for 3 years. Out on the dating field! how long should i wait before having sex with someone I date? i don’t like playing games and don’t believe in rules. I waited 4 months in my last marriage and sure we married but it turned out all wrong. I don’t sleep around…