Comments on: He Won’t Open Up? Know What He’s Feeling…

By: Stacy Eaglin

Stacy Eaglin — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 14:08:17 +0000

Yes, I think you should lay it on the line. That’s more than likely what she’s waiting for. If not atleast you know and won’t be waisting your time.

By: Matt

Matt — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 21:40:30 +0000

Howdy Gals,

What about the other side of the coin – that being a man trying to find out what makes her tick or what’s happening deep within the confines of her head? I am with a Woman (and I ‘Woman’ by every sense of the word, she is incredible) for just over a year now. I am crazy about her and seek no other, which I like to believe I have made abundantly clear to her, yet I cannot seem to get any kind of reciprocation/reaction or even some sort of indication from her that we are of similar thinking. Logical thinking would lead one to believe that, plain and simple, we might just not be on the same page. That would hurt, but if that’s the case then that’s just what it is. Without going into detail though, I don’t really think that’s what’s happening here. Heart can cloud better judgment, I know, but I don’t think that’s necesarilly the case here.

Being a bone-headed, knuckle-dragging man myself, I would seek the advice of some of my own male friends…but I think we all know how much would be accomplished through that.

Any thoughts Ladies? What would you suggest a guy in my position do – lay it all on the line tell her I love her and see what happens? That’s a pretty big mozza ball in the room if she doesn’t reciprocate.

I may be biased, but I always thought us males were pretty easy to figure out, ha :)

I’m rambling now…sorry. Your thoughts?

Thank You Kindly.

By: Matt

Matt — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 21:36:04 +0000

Howdy Gals,

Being a bone-headed, knuckle-dragging man myself, I would seek the advice of some of my own male friends…but I think we all know how much would be accomplished through that.

I’m rambling now…sorry. Your thoughts?

Thank You Kindly.

By: Nathalie

Nathalie — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 17:58:31 +0000

Hi!
Thanks for all the info. I will certainly need to read this more then once. I saw myself in so many aspect.
I’m in a relationship (almost 1 year and a half) right now and I had started to do the wrong things. I’ve also noticed that my man started to take his distance. Fortunetly, I read and read and started shifting my mind. I feel things are a bit better now but unfortunetly, I believe that he still doubts the old me will resurface. It is too late? Will he ever get confident that I might be the right woman? At first we both said we believe in getting married one day and now he’s saying something like “in five year” or “it’s just a paper”. I know it all started with alot of attraction but now, he not communicating much and I don’t thing he feel fulfilled but probably more critized since I had my share of tears he must think he can’t make me happy. I realized while reading your article that I have pushed him away by being needy. Is it reversible? Thank you!

By: anna

anna — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 19:16:02 +0000

hi christian

i have known a guy for 3 weeks. I know it sounds rushing, but i really feel ok. I started doing the things i normally do with a guy I like…pushing the relationship, working hard for it, trying to convince they guy that Im the one…well, he was flying away. And all of a sudden I came along these newsletters on internet and ‘catchhimandkeephim’. As i was reading..I instantly took action…i stopped and sent a message saying : Hi ***, i think that sometimes we talk too seriously about the two of us and we dont enjoy each other’s company instead.’ A msg came back after 1 minute: Yes! i perefectly agree with you. We should meet up and start enjoying each other’s company! ‘ I was amazed. Thanks chris

By: Charlee

Charlee — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 04:38:32 +0000

thanks…sometimes its hard for women to understand men because most dnt feel like talking or opening up nd reading this made me see the big picture about men…
let me jus say tht yu answered my questions =]]