Comments on: He Needs Space- What It Really Means http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/he-needs-space-what-it-really-means Dating Secret by Christian Carter and more. Wed, 08 Sep 2010 07:53:15 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Agnes aliyu http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/he-needs-space-what-it-really-means/comment-page-1#comment-1817 Agnes aliyu Sun, 30 Aug 2009 23:58:33 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/?p=155#comment-1817 Somtimes i feel like the good guy never looks my way...my boyfriend hardly calls me,but each i call he gives excuses and apologises and tells me he loves me. Should i believe him?i really love him.is there any hope for us? Somtimes i feel like the good guy never looks my way…my boyfriend hardly calls me,but each i call he gives excuses and apologises and tells me he loves me. Should i believe him?i really love him.is there any hope for us?

]]> By: Agnes aliyu http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/he-needs-space-what-it-really-means/comment-page-1#comment-1816 Agnes aliyu Sun, 30 Aug 2009 23:54:13 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/?p=155#comment-1816 It's nice to know that there's still hope for women who've tasted d bitter sides of relationship...my boyfriend hardly calls me,but each i call he gives excuses and apologises and tells me he loves me. Should i believe him?i really love him. It’s nice to know that there’s still hope for women who’ve tasted d bitter sides of relationship…my boyfriend hardly calls me,but each i call he gives excuses and apologises and tells me he loves me. Should i believe him?i really love him.

]]> By: marilena http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/he-needs-space-what-it-really-means/comment-page-1#comment-1778 marilena Thu, 11 Jun 2009 11:16:26 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/?p=155#comment-1778 hello, i need an advice reading all this made me think about my story with a guy that I met online and we have been dating 4 months now mostly smsing and I fly once a month to the country, city he is in (my birth city where my parents are).. I had been from the beginning quite skeptical about dating with such a long distance....we overcame it and things were seeming to be okay until few days ago....of course I wanted so much him to want me to spend time with me and he kept saying he has no time (his job is too demanding working and traveling a lot). The strange thing is that when ever he could not see me he would feel so guilty...like he was afraid he would lose me.....there has been always this tension.....we barely talked on the phone...did not want it too much and saw each other 2 to 3 days a month...i knew about everything but never met his family or friends...(which I found strange) he also asked me to go slowly but always sent sms where he is and what he does....also strange... anyway...few days ago he understood i was not feeling well and asked what is wrong...my answer exactly....I have nothing with you....I am just abit tired with the distance....and I got a wonderful answer that we will find a solution and it will all be ok....then few hours later another sms that he expected this cause i have so much time to think and he does not and that whatever does not have a solution needs to be stopped....I took it that he is telling me to stop.....there was no need for this last comment so I said few things that he is afraid and that confuses me one time he says he wants a family and the other that he wants to stop it....On and off I have been feeling with him strange.....maybe it was my fantasy but he kept saying that things will change and we should be patient... Anyway now i am her ein the same city and he said in a very nice way that he does not want to see THIS TIME me cause I pushed him away and it is not HIS FAULT and that he does not want to hurt me...he told me to take care and kisses and I ask is this an emotionally unavailable man or this quite a normal behaviour? The long distance does not help and the fact that he likes mostly sms and email and no other form of communication make me confused....he also tries to speak my native language, GREEK, does not make things easier....but he refuses to speak english which we both speak fluently!!! There are many strange things.....he ays he lives with his sister and he is quite overprotective spending most of his free weekends with her....could he be lying or am I too paranoid? Not knowing hi and not having too much info about him does not help....sometimes I think he is the most wonderful man and the other that he is a lier and maybe his sister is his wife and he is cheating...how could this be??? two so very opposite things for the same man? He says he is not doing anything on purpose.....But when a man knows in advance he has not so much free time why is he entering a relationship unless he just wants to have some fun.....especially through the internet with not much info showing,... I am writing all this cause maybe this is atypical man behavior that I do not understand....anyway since this last email I have not heard from him.....ANY ideas>??? any help??? thanks hello,
i need an advice reading all this made me think about my story with a guy that I met online and we have been dating 4 months now mostly smsing and I fly once a month to the country, city he is in (my birth city where my parents are).. I had been from the beginning quite skeptical about dating with such a long distance….we overcame it and things were seeming to be okay until few days ago….of course I wanted so much him to want me to spend time with me and he kept saying he has no time (his job is too demanding working and traveling a lot). The strange thing is that when ever he could not see me he would feel so guilty…like he was afraid he would lose me…..there has been always this tension…..we barely talked on the phone…did not want it too much and saw each other 2 to 3 days a month…i knew about everything but never met his family or friends…(which I found strange) he also asked me to go slowly but always sent sms where he is and what he does….also strange…
anyway…few days ago he understood i was not feeling well and asked what is wrong…my answer exactly….I have nothing with you….I am just abit tired with the distance….and I got a wonderful answer that we will find a solution and it will all be ok….then few hours later another sms that he expected this cause i have so much time to think and he does not and that whatever does not have a solution needs to be stopped….I took it that he is telling me to stop…..there was no need for this last comment so I said few things that he is afraid and that confuses me one time he says he wants a family and the other that he wants to stop it….On and off I have been feeling with him strange…..maybe it was my fantasy but he kept saying that things will change and we should be patient…

Anyway now i am her ein the same city and he said in a very nice way that he does not want to see THIS TIME me cause I pushed him away and it is not HIS FAULT and that he does not want to hurt me…he told me to take care and kisses

and I ask is this an emotionally unavailable man or this quite a normal behaviour? The long distance does not help and the fact that he likes mostly sms and email and no other form of communication make me confused….he also tries to speak my native language, GREEK, does not make things easier….but he refuses to speak english which we both speak fluently!!!
There are many strange things…..he ays he lives with his sister and he is quite overprotective spending most of his free weekends with her….could he be lying or am I too paranoid? Not knowing hi and not having too much info about him does not help….sometimes I think he is the most wonderful man and the other that he is a lier and maybe his sister is his wife and he is cheating…how could this be??? two so very opposite things for the same man? He says he is not doing anything on purpose…..But when a man knows in advance he has not so much free time why is he entering a relationship unless he just wants to have some fun…..especially through the internet with not much info showing,…
I am writing all this cause maybe this is atypical man behavior that I do not understand….anyway since this last email I have not heard from him…..ANY ideas>??? any help???

thanks

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