Comments on: Five Reasons Men Leave Women They Love http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/five-reasons-men-leave-women-they-love Dating Secret by Christian Carter and more. Thu, 02 Feb 2012 03:54:12 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Candy http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/five-reasons-men-leave-women-they-love/comment-page-1#comment-2031 Candy Mon, 02 Aug 2010 21:58:09 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/five-reasons-men-leave-women-they-love#comment-2031 I love this! Recently my relationship ended VERY suddenly. I absolutley did not see it coming. We talked about the future together and so on. Now I need a few years to heal. The thought of being with another man makes me feel sick to my stomach. I have some major trust issues now. I just can't seem to picture myself with anyone else. I thought he was the one and now I feel like someone knocked me flat on my face. But I do know that I need to start loving myself and getting my own life together before I am able to try another relationship again. I just feel overwhelming sadness everyday. :( I love this! Recently my relationship ended VERY suddenly. I absolutley did not see it coming. We talked about the future together and so on. Now I need a few years to heal. The thought of being with another man makes me feel sick to my stomach. I have some major trust issues now. I just can’t seem to picture myself with anyone else. I thought he was the one and now I feel like someone knocked me flat on my face. But I do know that I need to start loving myself and getting my own life together before I am able to try another relationship again. I just feel overwhelming sadness everyday. :(

]]> By: cyberrosse http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/five-reasons-men-leave-women-they-love/comment-page-1#comment-1839 cyberrosse Mon, 05 Oct 2009 20:46:12 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/five-reasons-men-leave-women-they-love#comment-1839 I would like to comment on LJ's question or need for guidance. I was once a young and beautiful woman who never once thought any man could do her wrong. Not once did I feel insecurity or jealousy; but when my first husband left me a few months after my first child was born and he gave me the reason that I was going through PPD and he could not handle it, I felt very bad about myself. We then got back together 4 years later and I had my son. This time we broke up again for good. I never had PPD, he was putting things in my head so that he can fool around and then come back when he was done. I felt very insecure and ugly and could not have a healthy relationship with men for several years; until I met my present husband. He took the time to listen to my insecurities, made me feel special everyday and when I was having a jealousy tantrum he would stop me and let me know that he was going to go ahead and do what he had to do, and if my feelings were being hurt it was because I was being silly and insecure. (He works installing alarms in homes, and sometimes when he had to go to female's home I would beg him not to); but then he would return and reasure me that it is only I who he loves. We are now going on to 15 years married and I feel so much better. You need a strong, loving man. Who will understand your feelings and at the same time will not allow your feelings to get out of hand. But most of all you need to love yourself. No one can take your man away from you. If he is going to cheat he will do it no matter what you look like. don't let a man tell you he has cheated because you caused it. If he is no longer in love, then he should walk. And you should let him go, if he regrets it he will be back. No matter how much you feel like pulling your hair because of not being able to control the relationship, stop! We females do not like to be controlled, men don't either. If you feel you have to control a man; then you don't want a man, you want a boy or a monkey. Give your man his space and respect him. If he loves you he will show you his gratitude by working hard for you, coming home every night and showing you his love in every smile, kiss and touch. Try it. Good luck to you. (Remember, love starts with you) I would like to comment on LJ’s question or need for guidance. I was once a young and beautiful woman who never once thought any man could do her wrong. Not once did I feel insecurity or jealousy; but when my first husband left me a few months after my first child was born and he gave me the reason that I was going through PPD and he could not handle it, I felt very bad about myself. We then got back together 4 years later and I had my son. This time we broke up again for good. I never had PPD, he was putting things in my head so that he can fool around and then come back when he was done. I felt very insecure and ugly and could not have a healthy relationship with men for several years; until I met my present husband. He took the time to listen to my insecurities, made me feel special everyday and when I was having a jealousy tantrum he would stop me and let me know that he was going to go ahead and do what he had to do, and if my feelings were being hurt it was because I was being silly and insecure. (He works installing alarms in homes, and sometimes when he had to go to female’s home I would beg him not to); but then he would return and reasure me that it is only I who he loves. We are now going on to 15 years married and I feel so much better. You need a strong, loving man. Who will understand your feelings and at the same time will not allow your feelings to get out of hand. But most of all you need to love yourself. No one can take your man away from you. If he is going to cheat he will do it no matter what you look like. don’t let a man tell you he has cheated because you caused it. If he is no longer in love, then he should walk. And you should let him go, if he regrets it he will be back.

No matter how much you feel like pulling your hair because of not being able to control the relationship, stop! We females do not like to be controlled, men don’t either. If you feel you have to control a man; then you don’t want a man, you want a boy or a monkey. Give your man his space and respect him. If he loves you he will show you his gratitude by working hard for you, coming home every night and showing you his love in every smile, kiss and touch. Try it. Good luck to you. (Remember, love starts with you)

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