Perhaps you can change the places you frequent. I agree with you that a lot of women can be like that, but I think there are a lot as well who aren’t. Same for men. I am 42, divorced single and I think there are a lot of people, men and women who are good candidates and not psychos…But well, if I speak from experience, I have not found someone suitable for me yet and I do not date much. When I do, it is easy to meet people, but harder to find some one who is right for me. Better to go slow and develop good friendships and perhaps something will develop with the right person…

For the women out there, I can’t find a woman who is what she says she is initially. I hope to find the “next big thing” but have all but given-up.

Some clues for you. Here is what Men 35-45 are saying about Women they meet today:

1) She’s crazy. Passive-Agressive, Bi-Polar, Borderline Personality Disorder. If she’s been married and divorced, there’s a problem. If she’s never been married, there’s a HUGE problem.
2) Poor communicators. Selfish, immature, Passive Aggressive.
3) Women want to be treated equally. They want the same jobs as men and they want equal pay. But wait….Just wait until the check shows-up The women get “Alligator Arms” or “Become Astronomers”. I have personally ended relationships becuase I did not feel it should be necessary to spend $75-150 3x per week to entertain a lady.
4) Personal finances are in shambles.
5) Multiple marriages. Seriously ladies, after 2 or 3 or 4 marriages, should any man take you seriously when you say you want to find some one “special”?
6) The children always must come first. A lofty, admirable goal for sure. However, if you place your children first where does that leave the man that places “you” first? No parity. Will not work.
7) Women are a lot like men. many women say they want to find a decent, attractive, successful man to spend time with. In fact, they want to play the field just like men do. As one 48 single woman told me recently, “You just don’t understand that there is sooo much out there for middle-aged women now….” Call it the Cougar Movement. Blame it on Hollywood, Oprah, Dr Phil, “Sex In The City”, etc.

Every man who has been through a divorce and now finds himself in the dating world unexpectedly and against his will has learned for those two experiences: A woman of 2010 feels that her personal happiness and growth trumps everything else. Women are immature, selfish and demanding. Finding a reasonable woman to commit to now is virtually impossible.