Comments on: Dating But He Doesn’t Know What He Wants?

By: Shawna

Shawna — Fri, 14 Oct 2011 03:10:13 +0000

Hello, My name is shawna Earle. My fiance and I have been together for a little over a year. His grandma passed away in april and We moved into her house and out of my parents. The electric got shut off and it was a nighmare but it brough us closer because all we had was eachother. We then found a new apartment and well the problem is he is adddddicted to xbox crazy! And his cell phone always closing out of stuff when I walk by or sit next to him. We got into a huge argument and my parents hate him he told me he doesn’t think we can get married or be engaged or even be together at all with my parents not liking him… and he says he loves me but his mind sais he doesn’t. He told me i should go stay somewhere for a couple days so he can think through so when I called my mom to see if i can come back home he got all pissed. but ?I don’t know if he is cheating, Or doesn’t have interest in me or what, HELP please i need advide bad!

By: Mia

Mia — Mon, 31 Jan 2011 23:31:24 +0000

@Leah,
If someone is calling you derogatory names (especially someone you haven’t even met yet), that is a very bad sign. I would count yourself lucky that you didn’t invest more time in this person and move on.

By: Leah

Leah — Sun, 17 Oct 2010 00:28:30 +0000

ok so theres this guy i met him on the internet hes (real) we have never talked in person and we havent seen eachother face to face. we started talking and later on 2days later i gues?? we were going out and he kept tellin me he loved me and he wanted to stay with me and meet me in person. then later on that day we had a huge fight. he called me a hoe, bitch and asked me why did i even bother. the the next day he told me he wanted it to work and he wanted me back. and we text eachother. but i dont know what signals hes sending me. what should i do???? i hardly know him but i wanna get to know him.

-Confused

By: Jenny

Jenny — Tue, 21 Sep 2010 18:04:12 +0000

Why is it that dating advice columns are always geared toward women? Why don’t men have to figure out what makes a woman tick and then make an effort to get them? It feels like women have to do all the modifying of their expectations for the man and the man just gets to fart around being indecisive, regardless of the effect it has on the woman. Yeah, dating may be confusing for men too, but everything you ever read is all the same in that it goes on about how the woman has to suck it up and change the way she reacts to the situation, be patient, understand his perspective. Try understanding our perspective once in a while. Women like men who are mature enough to recognize that in a relationship, there are two people and their actions have an impact on the other person too. Dating is like discovering all these sucky little boys who are afraid of dealing with their emotions, so just diss the woman because it’s easier.

By: maria

maria — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:58:21 +0000

wow i felt so identified with the thing u commented about the man who doesnt want commitment it happens the same with me.. and i kinda feel that things are going better with us..but i dont know i wanna be with him and i wish we could rush things.. i dont wanna wait a lifetime.. how can i do to “push” him in a light way..? in fact, how can i make him understand that he will be happy with me in a relationship? i mean.. we had a short relationship.. but he got a busy schedule and then we had some rows too..coz i felt he was very distant and so on.. and the other day he told me about his doubts.. then i knew he didnt have good luck with his ex.. but he always writes me, says that he loves me.. and he thinks he is clarifing his mind.. what shall i do?? coz we love each other.. and i wanna be with him.. we need to talk this in person but we have some holidays now.. till 15th july.. and i dont think its convenient to ask him out before.. pls i need some advice!! i really liked what u wrote