Christian Carter - Dating Questions For Women

Ever been in a relationship where you KNEW inside that it wasn’t working… but you loved the guy and tried everything to make it work anyways?

And despite all your efforts, neither you OR him became the least bit happier or more fulfilled, despite everything you tried.

So you finally took matters into your own hands and broke things off… (while secretly you were hoping that he’d change once he saw that you were serious about leaving him).

But this only ended up making you feel WORSE and less certain about whether you were doing the right thing.

If you’ve been through this situation, or something similar as a woman, you’re not alone.

Below is one of the most common email questions I receive and my response about what to do if you’re in this place in your love life.

Keep reading to find out what to do if your relationship hasn’t been “working”… and why trying to “fix” things only leads you to more of the same unfulfilling experiences that are pushing you and the man in your life apart.

I’m about to show you a better way…

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I recently got an email from a woman with a few great questions in it about how to get her relationship back on track.

I wanted to share this email with you, as I know you’ll want to hear about her story and the guidance I have for her.

Especially if you’ve ever felt completely uncertain about where your relationship was headed because of the way your boyfriend is acting.

Now, here’s that question I recently got from a woman…

***Question From A Reader***

Hi Christian,

Just bought your e-book and am finding it quite useful…. My fiance proposed to me last Feb, and I was so ecstatic, I moved town’s to live with him and changed jobs and left most of my friends behind. (still visit the friends regularly though). After four months of living together, the intimacy and newness has died down (with a few arguments along the way).

We are both trying to adjust to living together, and some hurtful things have been said and happened, namely my fiance has insisted we postpone the wedding (after many arrangements have been made), and has mentioned more than once that he’s not sure if he’s up for all the committment that goes with being married, and having a family (acutally has said he is now unsure if he wants all that…) I’m trying to deal with the hurt (actually devistated) feelings of the things I thought we both wanted not happening, and also the fact that what we once had has changed and I now feel like I’m in limbo.

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Are you looking to experience more love, happiness and fulfillment in your love life?Does there seem to be “something missing” from the way you and a man interact that’s either keeping you from connecting on a deeper personal and emotional level…

Or is he being RESISTANT when it comes to getting closer with you?

Then you’ve got to read the real-life story about a woman’s failures, growth, and successes with the “unavailable” man in her life.

She shares how she went from feeling frustrated and confused to learning how to feel empowered and confident… and describes exactly how she made this change.

You can use the ideas and techniques that she shares NOW to improve your love life.

First, let me ask you…

What if you could find just one good real-world idea that brought you close to that great guy that for some reason seems “unavailable” or withdraws from you?

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Would you like to know the sure-fire way to recapture a man’s passion and interest in you and your relationship?

Sure, you could believe that since he seems to no longer appreciate you the way he used to that he’s not worth it and doesn’t get it.

But there’s more to it if you’ve had something special that you’d like to keep growing.

There are 2 things I’ve found to be true for almost every good relationship that’s fallen into a rut-

#1) The deeper ATTRACTION both people used to feel that made them outwardly loving and appreciative of each other has faded

And…

#2) Both partners feel DISCONNECTED, even though they’re still together and going through the motions of their relationship

I can help you in both these areas, if you’re really ready to make a change in your love life.

My best-selling eBook “Catch Him & Keep Him” will show you why a man’s affections and passion often “fizzle” after a short while even though you’re great together, and the easy steps you can take to get the attraction and connection back.

Discover what the secret to a man staying committed for the long-run is, and how to get your relationship back on track.

It’s all here in my eBook:

Catch Him & Keep Him eBook

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I want to share something I’ve learned with you from years of working with women in long-term relationships.

It’s about how to take your relationship that feels stuck in the mud and either turn it around, or know when to let go.

See, the 2 questions I get most often from women who write me are:

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Ready for some quick “hands-on” tips about what really works with men, and what doesn’t? Good, because I’m going to share a few emails from REAL WOMEN about how things work in the real world of dating and relationships with men.

****Email From A Reader****

Christian,

You are wonderful and so are your programs. I became engaged on Dec. 17th and I have a great big diamond ring to show for it.

Ha!

I recently listened to your Casual to Committed disks again and they are still helping me navigate the world of men as we try to decide on a wedding date. He keeps telling me I bewitched him because he can’t believe his own behavior or feelings.

He feels I am very different from all of the women he has ever been involved with. I use ideas and make comments from your programs and my fiancee’ thinks I’m extremely smart. This is a dream come true for me and I am so happy.

I started reading your stuff in June of 2006 after a man I had been in love with just cut off all communication and sort of disappeared. I was devastated. I printed your ebook and listened to your interviews. Thirteen days later my fiancee’ started writing to me from a dating site and I knew just how to handle the entire dating situation this time.

He actually proposed in August of 2006, but of course I told him no because I was going to date for a while longer having just been out of another relationship. Well, he really started pursuing me then and before I knew it he had me (and I had him).

He gleefully told me I hooked him and then would wonder out loud how I did it since he had been dating a long time and had always dated ‘airheads and bimbos’. But I’m now considered sexy and fun and mysterious!! ME!!!

Thanks so much. My fiancee’ and I are in our fifties and both of us had very long, very unhappy marriages. We are ecstatic to be so well matched and ‘know’ how to find our way through the commitment process with both of us feeling really good about it.

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Ever wonder why the man you’re dating and having an amazing time with doesn’t call you very often?Or worse… stops calling altogether?

If you’ve ever had this happen to you with a man, then you know how FRUSTRATING it can be when a man just suddenly stops calling for what seems like no good reason…

And you’ve spent more time than you’d like to admit wondering what happened and what YOU might have done wrong.

Most women in this situation fall into a kind of trap that seems to work against them…

Instead of recognizing that the man not calling is an important signal in of itself, they become obsessed with wanting to know what he’s thinking and WHY he’s acting this way.

But most women also know on an intuitive level that coming out and actually asking a man why he’s acting this way wouldn’t bring about anything good.And guess what?

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Want answers on what to do in your relationship FAST?

The Second Edition of my eBook “ Catch Him & Keep Him” is available for you to download right now.

I’ve added over 100 new pages of tips on what to do and say in even the most difficult of situations with a man.

Situations such as:

-What to say to him when you’ve been dating, but he tells you he wants a “break” that will have him wondering how he ever questioned his feelings for you.

-How to talk to a man if he still talks to his ex, and you’re not sure she’s out of his life so your relationship can move forward.

-Going from a few great dates and lots of “chemistry” into an amazing relationship that will give you what you really want, and will last- if you know how to set things up in a man’s mind, you’ll NEVER experience a man’s “resistance” to a relationship with you ever again.

-How to respond if you’ve been going out with a man for a few weeks or months, spending all your time with each other, and sleeping together… and then he suddenly isn’t sure if he wants a relationship, or tells you he isn’t “ready”.

-You’ve been going out with a man for several months or longer, and he tells you that he just doesn’t feel it for you anymore, or that he loves you but he’s not “in love” with you.

My new eBook will show you exactly how deal with all these unfortunately common and frustration situations that come up with men- and how to quickly turn them around and get your relationship back on track where your man can’t wait to spend more and more time with you.

If you haven’t read my eBook yet, or you don’t know exactly what to do in these situations above, it’s time you stopped wasting your precious time and energy and made sure your relationship gives back to you the way it should.

Don’t keep GUESSING or pretending that you know what it is that makes the man your with wild with excitement at the thought of creating an amazing, loving and lasting relationship with you.

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This time I’m responding to an email I got from a woman who recently bought my ebook.

I think you’ll “feel her pain” and see why I wanted to respond to her.

She’s going through that dreaded situation. I’ve seen lots of women deal with where she was dating a guy and became “physical” with him, but then he quickly pulled away.

Want to know what’s going on with a man in this situation and what he’s thinking?

And what to do about it? Keep reading…

Question From A Reader

Hi Christian

I’ve just bought your book….I’m from Thailand and I appreciated your book so much.

Unfortunately, I read the lesson about Thinking in Time Frames where you taught how to let a man wait for sex… but I’ve already made that mistake and had sex with him. I want a more serious relationship and I told him afterwards, but as you told me he would, he became impatient when we talked and it made me so frustrated and upset.

Now he’s acting distant. So, what should I do to rewire our relationship and make him see my worth?

I feel so disappointed about my actions.

Christian, please help me…

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This time I’m sharing a great question from a reader.It’s a question I get all the time from women that points out a common misunderstanding women have about men.

Reader:

Dear Christian,

I’m sorry but I need to ask you a question. I need advice and help. Me and my ex have been together off and on many times, recently we just broke up and now he’s dating someone else. (he doesn’t know what he wants) But I know he still has very big feelings for me and I want advice and help on getting him back. Even though he’s dating someone right now, he still has feelings for me, and I need help on getting him back with me and not with her.

Please help!

Sincerely,
Needy and Hopeless

My Answer:

Thanks for writing, your email has about 147 great things here.

Let’s look at a few of them…

The first important issue is that you’re ignoring all the important signs your ex is giving you.

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