Christian Carter - Dating Questions For Women

Is the man you love “unavailable” for anything lasting or committed with you?

Are you tired of all the guessing and UNCERTAINTY that comes along with not knowing how your man feels, and what he’ll want or not want next?

Is it making you frustrated wondering if you’ll EVER find and enjoy the kind of love and relationship that’s truly lasting and secure?

If so, there are some important things you should know about a man’s “commitment tempo” and the REAL reasons he will decide for himself that he wants “forever” with you.

Here’s the strangest thing about men:

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**Question From A Reader**

Hi Christian.

I have just read your latest email about mistakes and i have to admit I nearly wept. You are totally right! I recently started spending a lot of time with a guy I used to know. We had an instant connection and he was exactly as you said:

affectionate at first, initiating plans etc, then I made not one mistake but ALL of those you mentioned in your email, and as you said…. he pulled away big time. The attractions gone for him now. What I want to know is, is there any way I can reverse the damage I have caused? Can I get my friendship with him back on track? Is it possible he may learn to feel again what he once felt for me? Please help. Im at my wits end and I really do miss having him in my life. I would be grateful for any advice you could give me on this matter.

Thanks,
N.W.

**My Response**

OK.

Let me get right to the point here about what you need to do…

First off, as you start to recognize new things about yourself and the mistakes you’ve been making, it’s very easy to start thinking that things are EVEN WORSE than you thought they were, and for that to freak you out.

But don’t let this stop you from continuing to learn and grow.

There’s a funny thing that happens to us in life…

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Would you like to be more in control of your love life this year?

Are you tired of being single and waiting around for that “chance encounter” with Mr. Right?

There’s a way you can DRAMATICALLY increase the chances of finding that one special man who is RIGHT for you… as soon as TODAY.

I mean, why sit around waiting on pure luck or chance, when he’s already out there and looking for a woman JUST LIKE YOU? Right?

So what am I talking about here?

I’m talking about the magic connecting power of the Internet, and online dating.

Maybe you don’t think online dating is for you, or maybe you just haven’t been too successful with it in the past.

Maybe you’re even doing online dating now, but have so far found it to be time-consuming and disappointing because all the men you think are interesting either don’t email you back, or never call again after a great first or second date.

I understand your frustration.

…continue reading »»How & Where To Meet Great Men

In this post, I want to share some quick and easy things you can do to make sure that when you meet a man, you guys really connect and turn it into something more.

If you’ve already read my eBook, then you know about the “attitude” carried by those women who are naturally attractive to men and who inspire them to want to give a relationship a chance.

I call the attitude “Playful & Independent.”

I’ll explain how this “attitude” works, and why men find is so attractive in a woman by starting here-

I want you to imagine for a second what it’s like to be a single, successful, attractive man who is your own age.

…continue reading »»The Truth About Why A Man Does Not Call Back

I’ve noticed something fascinating that happens this PARTICULAR time of year to “good” relationships.

Especially in relationships where the couple has been dating for several months or a year or longer and they’re getting along and have a great connection.

The holidays roll around and a lot of women begin to wonder if their guy is finally going to either pop the question, buy them a ring or make more of a long-term commitment.

To top it off, maybe your friends or family are giving you the impression that it’s something THEY think should happen, too.

All this wondering about whether or not the guy will commit can either lead to a great and happy surprise, or signal the
start of a lot of resentment, struggle or even a break-up

Before I explain, let me ask you-

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I’m sure I don’t have to convince you of the fact that most men rarely communicate directly about how they FEEL.

In fact, it’s very rare that a man will simply tell you if he’s feeling something intense.

Most men pride themselves on being highly “logical” and self-sufficient to the point where overt or intense emotional displays just aren’t part of how they communicate.

Now, how many female friends do you have who date men who aren’t very expressive or “open” on an emotional level?

And how many of these men are the kind of men who have always been, and will always be, less emotionally expressive?

It’s just the man’s nature.

But here’s the fascinating thing…

…continue reading »»He Won’t Open Up? Know What He’s Feeling…

What does it mean when you meet a man and he flirts with you and you feel a great connection, but he never asks you out on a date?

What does it means when a man doesn’t call when he says he will, or never contacts you again after a particularly “intense” date?

Do men just like to play games or is something else going on here?

It COULD be that he’s simply not available (and he didn’t want to volunteer that information to you)…

Or, it could be that a big part of why he withdraws or acts like he’s lost interest has less to do with “games” and much, much more to do with him feeling that he wasn’t ATTRACTED to you in the way that keeps him pursuing you and wanting to spend time with you.

…continue reading »»Are You Tired Of Men Playing “Games”?

Now let’s talk about the reasons why men often leave relationships…

***COMMENT***

Christian,

I have been seeing my boyfriend for a year and a half and we have a great relationship on all levels (intellectually, physically, etc). However unfortunately we have been ‘head-bashing’ over a certain problem that keeps resurfacing in our relationship and now it has literally come to a point where he wants “time out”. I have a problem trusting him and want to always control situations. I have constantly been giving him nonsense when he socialises with his female friends, and have an insecurity that he will leave me. It has been very strenuous on him and he actually told me this morning that he wants to be with me but he no longer knows what to do and wants time out of this relationship…

I finally did something right this morning when speaking to him (after reading your last email on control), I just listened and said that I understood. He said we will discuss it further this evening. I am SO LOST! I don’t know what to do to fix this now, and am not sure if this is ‘fixable’. I REALLY LOVE him and he loves me, but it has been carrying on for so long he doesn’t want to hear excuses anymore.

PLEASE HELP me. What can I do to make this work?

I will be forever grateful for your response!

…continue reading »»Five Reasons Men Leave Women They Love

Have you recently broken up with a man and you’re wondering how you’re going to “get back out there” and start dating again?

Are you feeling like you’ve got too much going on to focus on dating and socializing right now?

Or maybe you have children and can’t imagine having the time and energy for a love life?

If you can relate to any of these, I have good news.

In this article I’m going to give you 3 quick tips on how to meet lots of new and interesting men WITHOUT taking a ton of time away from your busy schedule, your work or your family.

I’m also going to tell you the BEST way to attract the RIGHT man and find the love you want, without wasting a lot of time on men who are inappropriate, wrong or unavailable.

Because the LAST thing you need is to waste a lot of time with a man who is just going to give you the “runaround” or treat you badly.

So let’s get started.

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How come a man will say he’s “not ready” for a serious relationship with one woman… and then meet another woman a few weeks or months later and be smitten with her and get involved in a deep and lasting relationship that he freely commits himself to?

What in the world is going on here?

Are men lying?

Do they just not know what they’re feeling?

Or is it something else?

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