Comments on: Before You Sleep With Him – Read This

By: lucey72

lucey72 — Fri, 02 Dec 2011 07:09:11 +0000

I never agree with Christian Carter. He names women feel like they are doing it all wrong so he can sell books! Every situation, every two people are different… to assume a woman wants a relationship after sex is as inane as saying every man just wants to only get laid… in fact a recent study of singles in Chicago showed that men are more likely to freak out after sex and see it as an obligation for something more whereas women see it as part of the dating peocess… yeah, get with the new millenium Mr Carter and quit living in the 1950s or cave man times! Lol

By: FUCK YOUR NAME

FUCK YOUR NAME — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 00:16:26 +0000

This is fucking dumb , when i say i want my free time it means i want to play wow and just be left the fuck alone.

Fuck you
FUck your shitty ass fake god

and most of all fuck your fucking asshole raw you fucking punk nigger

By: Trixie

Trixie — Mon, 23 May 2011 19:37:53 +0000

I think what Jezyca says about the Jami guy is very accurate, and most of all, she’s really right about the kiss and the touch. Especially the kiss. I think the kissing style tells a lot about a man’s love-making technique.

By: Jezyca Skylar

Jezyca Skylar — Mon, 16 May 2011 06:54:05 +0000

It’s funny, the guy, Jami, who goes against Christian’s advice and says that a man needs to have sex to decide whether or not he’s attracted to you also describes himself as someone who has frequent casual sex. Is this the type of guy you want for a boyfriend?

He describes a situation where the woman doesn’t want to have sex because she’s ’scared’ to jinx it – but what if she does want to have sex, intensely, but is capable of waiting confidently because she knows her worth.

Also read: he chased a woman for a month and lost his patience because she wanted him to commit before sex. Well clearly he was not up for reaching for the top of the tree. He didn’t have confidence in himself to know that she would give it up, probably sooner rather than later, if he just showed up fully and completely.

I personally think that you don’t have to go ‘all the way’ to know what the sexual chemsitry is. It’s all in the kiss and the touch.

By: susan coner

susan coner — Sun, 09 Jan 2011 22:45:59 +0000

I know a girl went to bed with this guy the first time she met him and they are married for 18 years.

By: Some proper Randomer

Some proper Randomer — Tue, 21 Dec 2010 21:12:42 +0000

I’m a guy also, I agree with it also. Love the challenge. If you tease a guy, he will want it more and more.
It’s funny reading this as a guy as it seems weird that girls find it hard to understand :D

By: Jami

Jami — Mon, 04 Oct 2010 03:42:52 +0000

I’m a guy, but I can’t agree with you more. We love the challenge and we will regularly go out of our way to chase and please a woman that makes us work for them. On the other hand don’t think that by just abstaining from having sex you’ll get him to fall from you…it’s actually a good way to get a guy frustrated.

As a man who has regular “casual” sex and no problems meeting new attractive women, I would just lose patience with a woman that looks like she wants to have sex but doesn’t want to “give it away” because she’s scared it will break the chances of a relationship. I’ve had sex on the first date and still went out of my way to see the girl again…and also chased a woman for a month before giving up because it was obvious she wanted me to commit to a relationship before I had sex with her.

I’m sorry, but I’m not gonna commit to a relationship before I’ve had sex a couple of times with a girl. Having good sexual chemistry is a must for me, and the only way to make sure it’s there is to have sex ;)

By: Roxy

Roxy — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 17:24:11 +0000

Is there no way to amend things once you’ve made the fatal mistake of sleeping with him?!
i’m not quite ready to give up.. although the distance is definitely there..
and why is it we always do this with the most gorgeous ones?!
hopefully lesson learned.. but regrets are rife!

By: Leigh

Leigh — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 07:08:33 +0000

Well, are we not all wiser now. I wish I’d read this before I launched into an intense physical relationship soon after I met Mr Gorgeous. Needless to say..he soon got all distant…just as I was getting intense feelings for him. Its taken 3 months to get over his disappearance…but I’ve learned what I needed to and can honestly say that I wont go down that road so soon again.

By: Tanya

Tanya — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 02:23:20 +0000

Interesting because I just got physical with a man I have been seeing for 8 wks….reading this makes me feel comfortable that I have not made a mistake. He was open to giving a little more in the communication area afterwards & he knew I am looking for more than a casual fling. He is the one contacting me & I already felt that “he feels it” prior to giving myself to him. I have been honest & I know he respects that, in saying that I am careful in the way I ask questions or say whats on my mind & thats all thanx to you, your tips etc.

Thank you.