iv been seing this lad 3 month now, we met over face book and things was great took abit of time meeting him when i did it was amazing. he says he likes me and everything. i asked him out on the first day :/ he said it too soon. at this point we was still close month later i asked him out he said it ‘too soon’ he send me all these cute texts text me all the time then i started getting clingy /:

i really like him and care for him alot and i wana be with him, within the 3 month past 2 month he been distant :/ we argue ALOT he’s says things that hurt threatens to leave ect. he kept saying he likes me alot and too take things slow i didnt really under stand all this i thought he didnt like me and was using me /: its been complicated right upto this point :/ he now says he doesn’t know what he wants and he’s heads ‘messed up’ he still has some sort of feelings for his ex and he met a girl on a night out he says he ‘likes her’ but doesnt know her he been texting her as a friend so he says and he says nothing is going too happen i cant be distant i need to feel close to him afraid hel leave or find some one else :/ hes giving it 2 week if things dont change hes gone what do i do :(