Comments on: Are You A Fling To Him…Or Something More? http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/are-you-a-fling-to-himor-something-more Dating Secret by Christian Carter and more. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 02:12:49 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Gina http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/are-you-a-fling-to-himor-something-more/comment-page-1#comment-2280 Gina Mon, 31 Oct 2011 15:53:06 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/?p=176#comment-2280 What I dont get is why woman have to "accept" mens behavior, no matter what it may be; yet, they dont have to make any changes for us! "Cool" girls get the men because they dont say what they think and feel, and let men do what ever they want!!! Wow! Well, no thank you!! All I want to know is when men became the weaker sex? That we have to "baby" and handle with kid gloves! Men are the dominant species, made bigger and stronger, to protect and provide for woman and children. PROTECT OUR HEARTS, BODIES AND SOULS and PROVIDE STABILITY: EMOTIONAL, FINANCIAL, ETC. Woman wouldnt have to be "cool" if MEN lived up their responsibilites and protected us and didnt use us! Then we wouldnt need to even TALK about OUR emotions!! Problem with society is that men get a free pass to cheat, use, lie, abuse woman as if thats how God intented Man to be. I dont think so! A MAN should hold himself to an even higher standard since they are the Leaders! They shouldnt Sleep with any woman that they wouldnt want to mother their child, and until we stop this nonsense about "hunting" and crap, we can expect a lot more violence, pain, and broken homes in the world. Woman need to stop feeding into this garbage! A man loves his woman, and protects her so she can give herself to him and the children!!! Not cheat and play games because then what? We end up chasing, and hurting and then NEGLECTING the CHILDREN!!!! Men YOU ARE NOT KIDS! YOU ARE NOT WOMAN! YOU ARE NOT BABIES!! YOU ARE NOT WEAK! So stop abusing your power over us!! We're NOT the problem!! ITS YOU!! EVERYTHING BEGINS AND ENDS WITH YOU! THE DOMINANT SEX! OKAY?! If you abuse us, we get "crazy" and its just that simple. So stop messing with young girls, (yea, the ones that end up being "crazy" and get used and discarded as adults because they are taken advantage of as young women or victimized as children!) Stop Lying. Stop using. Stop Cheating. Stop making us go against OUR INSTINCTS to accept "weak" as alpha male qualities, and STEP UP! SHOULD WE MAKE EQUAL PAY IF WE HAVE TO WORK: YES! ARE THERE ROLE REVERSALS IN THE WORLD: YES! But a normal woman does not want to work full time, make dinner, look pretty, screw you, take care of the kids, do the housework, mow the lawn and then let you do WHATEVER YOU WANT BECAUSE YOURE A HUNTER AND CANT CONTROL YOURSELF! IF YOU MEN WOULD WORK UNITL YOUR TIRED TO PROVIDE FOR US, you'd want to come home to dinner, and your womans body, but NO! YOU'RE ALL SUPER LAZY, with TOO MUCH TIME ON YOUR HANDS, BECAUSE WE'RE DOING EVERYTHING! So heres the deal. IF YOU WANT SEX: PAY FOR IT! HIRE A PROFESSIONAL WHO CHARGES FOR HER SERVICES, WHO IS SKILLED AND KNOWS HOW TO KEEP IT BUSINESS! Dont lie to get it! THAT IS PATHETIC! And dont use insecure, vulnerable girls, either! Because we are instictively made to trust you, EVEN THOUGH YOU HAVE ALL ABUSED THAT! So, dont say you care, when you dont. Thats when you get the pshyco girl. And if a female knows your married and still sleeps with you, you're dealing with someone who is spiritually sick: JUST LIKE YOU!!! A healthy woman knows better! MONEY, POWER, GREED: the route to all evil. And MEN! WAKE UP! PROTECTORS OF WOMAN AND CHILDREN! HUNTERS: TO HUNT FOR FOOD FOR WOMAN AND CHILDREN! And since there are more men than woman, I dont think any of you need more than one! Just find one that you're attracted to, and cherish her, and be a MAN! If you are doing right by ONE woman: YOU WONT HAVE THE TIME OR THE ENERGY, and she'll be happy, and TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOU!! We are woman. We need YOU! ITS NOT DESPERATE OR NEEDY!! WE NEED MEN! ITS IN OUR INSTINCT TO SEEK OUT MEN TO PROTECT AND CARE FOR US! Protect us from the predator men!! And one more thing...our bodies are sacred. Life grows and lives inside of us, and energy is created within that becomes the soul of another human being, so dont use us for sex. A womans body is a mans reward for taking care of her, and a man should only take care of, and have sex with a woman he adores and wants children with and bad behavoir will happen, but it shouldnt be accepted as the normal. Men who hurt woman, should be kept at bay by strong men who protect us. Its that simple. And one final thing, MEN, it is a man who is gentle and tender and loving and treats us with fragile gentleness. A man tells his woman his feelings and doesnt get her to do things through intimidation, fear, or manipulation, but because he loves her and she loves him! And when man is man and woman is woman, and the door closes, he does to her what makes him dominate, and her submit, and thats how its suppose to work! Not us learning how to be the "cool" girl. Just silly! What I dont get is why woman have to “accept” mens behavior, no matter what it may be; yet, they dont have to make any changes for us! “Cool” girls get the men because they dont say what they think and feel, and let men do what ever they want!!! Wow! Well, no thank you!! All I want to know is when men became the weaker sex? That we have to “baby” and handle with kid gloves! Men are the dominant species, made bigger and stronger, to protect and provide for woman and children. PROTECT OUR HEARTS, BODIES AND SOULS and PROVIDE STABILITY: EMOTIONAL, FINANCIAL, ETC. Woman wouldnt have to be “cool” if MEN lived up their responsibilites and protected us and didnt use us! Then we wouldnt need to even TALK about OUR emotions!! Problem with society is that men get a free pass to cheat, use, lie, abuse woman as if thats how God intented Man to be. I dont think so! A MAN should hold himself to an even higher standard since they are the Leaders! They shouldnt Sleep with any woman that they wouldnt want to mother their child, and until we stop this nonsense about “hunting” and crap, we can expect a lot more violence, pain, and broken homes in the world. Woman need to stop feeding into this garbage! A man loves his woman, and protects her so she can give herself to him and the children!!! Not cheat and play games because then what? We end up chasing, and hurting and then NEGLECTING the CHILDREN!!!! Men YOU ARE NOT KIDS! YOU ARE NOT WOMAN! YOU ARE NOT BABIES!! YOU ARE NOT WEAK! So stop abusing your power over us!! We’re NOT the problem!! ITS YOU!! EVERYTHING BEGINS AND ENDS WITH YOU! THE DOMINANT SEX! OKAY?! If you abuse us, we get “crazy” and its just that simple. So stop messing with young girls, (yea, the ones that end up being “crazy” and get used and discarded as adults because they are taken advantage of as young women or victimized as children!) Stop Lying. Stop using. Stop Cheating. Stop making us go against OUR INSTINCTS to accept “weak” as alpha male qualities, and STEP UP! SHOULD WE MAKE EQUAL PAY IF WE HAVE TO WORK: YES! ARE THERE ROLE REVERSALS IN THE WORLD: YES! But a normal woman does not want to work full time, make dinner, look pretty, screw you, take care of the kids, do the housework, mow the lawn and then let you do WHATEVER YOU WANT BECAUSE YOURE A HUNTER AND CANT CONTROL YOURSELF! IF YOU MEN WOULD WORK UNITL YOUR TIRED TO PROVIDE FOR US, you’d want to come home to dinner, and your womans body, but NO! YOU’RE ALL SUPER LAZY, with TOO MUCH TIME ON YOUR HANDS, BECAUSE WE’RE DOING EVERYTHING! So heres the deal. IF YOU WANT SEX: PAY FOR IT! HIRE A PROFESSIONAL WHO CHARGES FOR HER SERVICES, WHO IS SKILLED AND KNOWS HOW TO KEEP IT BUSINESS! Dont lie to get it! THAT IS PATHETIC! And dont use insecure, vulnerable girls, either! Because we are instictively made to trust you, EVEN THOUGH YOU HAVE ALL ABUSED THAT! So, dont say you care, when you dont. Thats when you get the pshyco girl. And if a female knows your married and still sleeps with you, you’re dealing with someone who is spiritually sick: JUST LIKE YOU!!! A healthy woman knows better! MONEY, POWER, GREED: the route to all evil. And MEN! WAKE UP! PROTECTORS OF WOMAN AND CHILDREN! HUNTERS: TO HUNT FOR FOOD FOR WOMAN AND CHILDREN! And since there are more men than woman, I dont think any of you need more than one! Just find one that you’re attracted to, and cherish her, and be a MAN! If you are doing right by ONE woman: YOU WONT HAVE THE TIME OR THE ENERGY, and she’ll be happy, and TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOU!! We are woman. We need YOU! ITS NOT DESPERATE OR NEEDY!! WE NEED MEN! ITS IN OUR INSTINCT TO SEEK OUT MEN TO PROTECT AND CARE FOR US! Protect us from the predator men!! And one more thing…our bodies are sacred. Life grows and lives inside of us, and energy is created within that becomes the soul of another human being, so dont use us for sex. A womans body is a mans reward for taking care of her, and a man should only take care of, and have sex with a woman he adores and wants children with and bad behavoir will happen, but it shouldnt be accepted as the normal. Men who hurt woman, should be kept at bay by strong men who protect us. Its that simple. And one final thing, MEN, it is a man who is gentle and tender and loving and treats us with fragile gentleness. A man tells his woman his feelings and doesnt get her to do things through intimidation, fear, or manipulation, but because he loves her and she loves him! And when man is man and woman is woman, and the door closes, he does to her what makes him dominate, and her submit, and thats how its suppose to work! Not us learning how to be the “cool” girl. Just silly!

]]> By: blee http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/are-you-a-fling-to-himor-something-more/comment-page-1#comment-2258 blee Fri, 16 Sep 2011 20:18:08 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/?p=176#comment-2258 really cool girls ??? now ur putting us in labels ???!!!...i honnestly disagree ...and who actually gave 'em the power to choose and pick ...im amazing the way i am and im sure any girl in her right mind feels the same ... really cool girls ??? now ur putting us in labels ???!!!…i honnestly disagree …and who actually gave ‘em the power to choose and pick …im amazing the way i am and im sure any girl in her right mind feels the same …

]]> By: sue@502 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/are-you-a-fling-to-himor-something-more/comment-page-1#comment-2104 sue@502 Wed, 17 Nov 2010 01:32:08 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/?p=176#comment-2104 I am not interested in transforming myself to just have a man , do they, I believe that if you want to change you can but accepting as is ,and if you want to change it is up to you, and no men don't transform themselves either so move on if you want to try change someone else to meet you needs,people only change when and if they choose to rarely is it to be someone they don't want to be we all should know this the more you pretend you are someone you are not the harder it will get I am not interested in transforming myself to just have a man , do they, I believe that if you want to change you can but accepting as is ,and if you want to change it is up to you, and no men don’t transform themselves either so move on if you want to try change someone else to meet you needs,people only change when and if they choose to rarely is it to be someone they don’t want to be we all should know this the more you pretend you are someone you are not the harder it will get

]]> By: C http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/are-you-a-fling-to-himor-something-more/comment-page-1#comment-1939 C Wed, 24 Mar 2010 04:32:47 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/?p=176#comment-1939 The down side to being a "Cool Girl" is the accusation of being distant since most men expect a girl to be emotional. I'm not the clingly type at all... When I'm feeling insecure, I back away from the guy and try to address the issue without expecting him to deal with it. The result is I come across as "Cold Girl". Huh? The down side to being a “Cool Girl” is the accusation of being distant since most men expect a girl to be emotional.

I’m not the clingly type at all… When I’m feeling insecure, I back away from the guy and try to address the issue without expecting him to deal with it. The result is I come across as “Cold Girl”. Huh?

]]> By: D http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/are-you-a-fling-to-himor-something-more/comment-page-1#comment-1879 D Fri, 18 Dec 2009 04:20:05 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/?p=176#comment-1879 I disagree with your advice. The theory of "Cool Girl" - is that a woman should be anything but herself just to please the man and so he can see her more than just a fling. There is no such thing as "cool girl" - the girl just have to feel good about herself, and the guy will fit in the picture later if he deserves to be there. Sure, she may offer advice to a guy, but really that's his business. I disagree with your advice.

The theory of “Cool Girl” – is that a woman should be anything but herself just to please the man and so he can see her more than just a fling.

There is no such thing as “cool girl” – the girl just have to feel good about herself, and the guy will fit in the picture later if he deserves to be there.

Sure, she may offer advice to a guy, but really that’s his business.

]]> By: Tonua http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/are-you-a-fling-to-himor-something-more/comment-page-1#comment-1822 Tonua Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:40:30 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/?p=176#comment-1822 Great advice! Great advice!

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