Comments on: 3 Ways To Spark Attraction With A Man http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man Dating Secret by Christian Carter and more. Thu, 02 Feb 2012 03:54:12 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: eliysha http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man/comment-page-1#comment-2321 eliysha Fri, 06 Jan 2012 22:46:02 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man#comment-2321 ive been dating this guy going on two years now. sounds weird but we actually met through our parents. they were togeather. for jst a bit, never married jst were 2geather a while. well their relationship didnt last it was always hectic. i was not feeling the fact that things we the way they were but somehow i caught feelings then it became deeper. but i only went through with it bc our parents ecepted it. but their not togeather anymore which makes the situation way better for Us. thats when things got sexually. physical. sometimes i wonder would things be better if we met under different circumstance. befor me, he was with his babymother 3 years prior. honestly he broke up with her to be with me. everything seemed to be everything in the beg. tho, sometimes we would argue bc i knew he didnt completly end his relationship with her. to make a long story short, i moved out of state, but we continued to a long-distance relationship. we were away from each other 6 months. i moved back. our time togeather was precious we have that spark, but at the same time sometimes iwonder if now am i the only one who feels that way. were taking things slow right now. its clear were both single, i want my options open bc i know he has his open. i dont kno were this could go bc im always the one calling, texting or just checking up on him. he barely does. he always has an excuse. but for the past 2 weeks hes been talking like it could go somewere but im gonna let him have his freedom now, if he wants me iknow hell come to me. but i want to know the chances of him really being committed, this time? ive been dating this guy going on two years now. sounds weird but we actually met through our parents. they were togeather. for jst a bit, never married jst were 2geather a while. well their relationship didnt last it was always hectic. i was not feeling the fact that things we the way they were but somehow i caught feelings then it became deeper. but i only went through with it bc our parents ecepted it. but their not togeather anymore which makes the situation way better for Us. thats when things got sexually. physical. sometimes i wonder would things be better if we met under different circumstance. befor me, he was with his babymother 3 years prior. honestly he broke up with her to be with me. everything seemed to be everything in the beg. tho, sometimes we would argue bc i knew he didnt completly end his relationship with her. to make a long story short, i moved out of state, but we continued to a long-distance relationship. we were away from each other 6 months. i moved back. our time togeather was precious we have that spark, but at the same time sometimes iwonder if now am i the only one who feels that way. were taking things slow right now. its clear were both single, i want my options open bc i know he has his open. i dont kno were this could go bc im always the one calling, texting or just checking up on him. he barely does. he always has an excuse. but for the past 2 weeks hes been talking like it could go somewere but im gonna let him have his freedom now, if he wants me iknow hell come to me. but i want to know the chances of him really being committed, this time?

]]> By: Parved L. http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man/comment-page-1#comment-2307 Parved L. Mon, 19 Dec 2011 03:31:39 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man#comment-2307 Coming from a guy: All guys are different. The article's advice is decent, but may not work for an individual man. It's good to find out what he likes. But I do have one piece of solid advice - ladies persist waaay to long with a man who says he doesn't want commitment. If a guy doesn't say what's bothering him, it's because he's embarrassed or chicken to say it. If he said, you might be very angry and hurt. But at the end of the day, he can't be changed no matter how bad his reasons are. There are a zillion single guys dying to date you - move on and be very very quick! In general, try to avoid 'chase' and 'challenge' and all that overrated silliness. Happy relationships are very straightforward - two people just treat eachother sweetly and that's that. Coming from a guy:

All guys are different. The article’s advice is decent, but may not work for an individual man. It’s good to find out what he likes.

But I do have one piece of solid advice – ladies persist waaay to long with a man who says he doesn’t want commitment. If a guy doesn’t say what’s bothering him, it’s because he’s embarrassed or chicken to say it. If he said, you might be very angry and hurt. But at the end of the day, he can’t be changed no matter how bad his reasons are. There are a zillion single guys dying to date you – move on and be very very quick!

In general, try to avoid ‘chase’ and ‘challenge’ and all that overrated silliness. Happy relationships are very straightforward – two people just treat eachother sweetly and that’s that.

]]> By: Wendy http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man/comment-page-1#comment-2281 Wendy Mon, 31 Oct 2011 18:41:36 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man#comment-2281 When I meet my now husband, we just let us going with flow, we had a very nice experiences moving around but I don't think we had the foundation of the attraction, we just was enjoying our time and we enjoyed very much the company of each other. But right now, I'm having a very hard time with my husband, we have been together for almost 5 years, but our relation start with the most important part, ''truly love and confidence'', the emotional part. I'm not so wonderful beautiful and my body is not the best at all. I just realize, that he doesn't feel attractive to me AT ALL, all this time ago, and I know too, that he wish if I can be the same ''beautiful'' person, but with another body, just because he told me. Now, I do know that we have a incredible relation, and he says that he love to make love to me, but he doesn't feel just attractive like for having sex just for fun because he doesn't like my body. He is very handsome, he is that kind of guy that can have any kind of woman.... But I'm not attractive at all to him. When I meet my now husband, we just let us going with flow, we had a very nice experiences moving around but I don’t think we had the foundation of the attraction, we just was enjoying our time and we enjoyed very much the company of each other. But right now, I’m having a very hard time with my husband, we have been together for almost 5 years, but our relation start with the most important part, ”truly love and confidence”, the emotional part. I’m not so wonderful beautiful and my body is not the best at all. I just realize, that he doesn’t feel attractive to me AT ALL, all this time ago, and I know too, that he wish if I can be the same ”beautiful” person, but with another body, just because he told me. Now, I do know that we have a incredible relation, and he says that he love to make love to me, but he doesn’t feel just attractive like for having sex just for fun because he doesn’t like my body. He is very handsome, he is that kind of guy that can have any kind of woman…. But I’m not attractive at all to him.

]]> By: Jess http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man/comment-page-1#comment-2259 Jess Sat, 17 Sep 2011 01:04:55 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man#comment-2259 I met a man and dated for about a month. We had a great connection, however, I smothered him with my enthusiasm. It was mutual at first. He fell off the planet. We text on again, off again and laugh a lot. He adores my humor. I recently told him (via text) that I appreciated his humor and how much we laugh and would like to continue dating...I think he fell off the planet. I waited a few days and sent him a funny email about the good experience I had, playfully complimented him, and wished him well. I cannot sell or convince someone to date or have a friendship. We are both single parents (I'm 35 and he's 41) with a hectic life. I am dating and moving forward, however he's someone I'd like to turn things around with. I met a man and dated for about a month. We had a great connection, however, I smothered him with my enthusiasm. It was mutual at first. He fell off the planet. We text on again, off again and laugh a lot. He adores my humor. I recently told him (via text) that I appreciated his humor and how much we laugh and would like to continue dating…I think he fell off the planet. I waited a few days and sent him a funny email about the good experience I had, playfully complimented him, and wished him well. I cannot sell or convince someone to date or have a friendship. We are both single parents (I’m 35 and he’s 41) with a hectic life. I am dating and moving forward, however he’s someone I’d like to turn things around with.

]]> By: skyblue2350 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man/comment-page-1#comment-2253 skyblue2350 Sat, 03 Sep 2011 16:51:40 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man#comment-2253 Christie, it's clear you love this guy and are feeling bad. It sounds like you're doing ALL the work in the relationship and he's not doing anything, and that you want him but honey he's just not that into you. At least, he's telling you that he only wants to be friends and not more serious so he's not leading you on. He's been telling you AND showing you with his actions ( not calling you, not showing up, etc) that he's not interested! WAKE UP! LISTEN to him and move on to a new guy (and there are plenty out there and you will love again!!) who loves you and wants to be in a relationship with you. I know you don't want to let go and move on but the sooner you do, the sooner you will find love - 'cause there's no love for you here! So lick your wounds for a while, then get out there and enjoy your life. And one last thing, STOP doing all the work. Let the next guy call you, ask you to do things, offer to do things for you, etc. You can give him positive attention but let him do the work and honey, a man is happy to do that when he thinks your're the one. There's being kind and then there's being stupid. Good luck. Christie, it’s clear you love this guy and are feeling bad. It sounds like you’re doing ALL the work in the relationship and he’s not doing anything, and that you want him but honey he’s just not that into you. At least, he’s telling you that he only wants to be friends and not more serious so he’s not leading you on. He’s been telling you AND showing you with his actions ( not calling you, not showing up, etc) that he’s not interested! WAKE UP! LISTEN to him and move on to a new guy (and there are plenty out there and you will love again!!) who loves you and wants to be in a relationship with you. I know you don’t want to let go and move on but the sooner you do, the sooner you will find love – ’cause there’s no love for you here! So lick your wounds for a while, then get out there and enjoy your life. And one last thing, STOP doing all the work. Let the next guy call you, ask you to do things, offer to do things for you, etc. You can give him positive attention but let him do the work and honey, a man is happy to do that when he thinks your’re the one. There’s being kind and then there’s being stupid. Good luck.

]]> By: Christie http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man/comment-page-1#comment-2188 Christie Mon, 25 Apr 2011 18:21:12 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man#comment-2188 I have read your advise and wish i had done things differently. I am surviving a broken relationship. i got together with this guy about a year after he broke up with his serious girlfriend. He was still leaving with the girl at his home but was not intimate. Its about a year plus now he just broke up with me and went back to the serious girlfriend before.He said we should just be friends.we used to have sex, plant a garden together, we use to spend time together in the first year, but i was always the one to call him or ask him to come home. Sometimes he says he will come and never show up. i have asked him to do certain things for me , he says yes and never shows up. About two weeks ago i ask him if he truly loves me he said yes. I was suppose to give him a massage the same week, he said he will come for it in the week but never should up, should i have called him to come for it. He was suppose to buy me some cooking gas, said yes he would but never came to do it. i spend about three days not calling him but commucating online. on saturday when communicating online with him, i am telling himm he does not spend time with me. He is then asking me don't you think we should be just friends. So ask him why, he said that how he sees it should be. He said he loves me and do not want to hurt me but he is not stable and not the one for me. I deserve someone better. I ask him if he is seeing someone, he said his ex but they only talking. He said he is sorry. Can you advice me cause i am really feeling dowm now. what did i do wrong. I have read your advise and wish i had done things differently. I am surviving a broken relationship. i got together with this guy about a year after he broke up with his serious girlfriend. He was still leaving with the girl at his home but was not intimate. Its about a year plus now he just broke up with me and went back to the serious girlfriend before.He said we should just be friends.we used to have sex, plant a garden together, we use to spend time together in the first year, but i was always the one to call him or ask him to come home. Sometimes he says he will come and never show up. i have asked him to do certain things for me , he says yes and never shows up. About two weeks ago i ask him if he truly loves me he said yes. I was suppose to give him a massage the same week, he said he will come for it in the week but never should up, should i have called him to come for it. He was suppose to buy me some cooking gas, said yes he would but never came to do it. i spend about three days not calling him but commucating online. on saturday when communicating online with him, i am telling himm he does not spend time with me. He is then asking me don’t you think we should be just friends. So ask him why, he said that how he sees it should be. He said he loves me and do not want to hurt me but he is not stable and not the one for me. I deserve someone better. I ask him if he is seeing someone, he said his ex but they only talking. He said he is sorry. Can you advice me cause i am really feeling dowm now. what did i do wrong.

]]> By: Emz http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man/comment-page-1#comment-2057 Emz Sun, 29 Aug 2010 00:53:00 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man#comment-2057 10 months is a long time to be with a guy and if he doesn't make the move to the next level to be more than 'just friends'...he is not that really into you. He enjoys your company but that doesn't mean he will fall for you unless otherwise...you prove to him that you're worth pursuing. Flirting is no sure way to prove that a guy wants to commit to you. it just shows he's a male human being being intrigued by a female. I understand how it feels to fall for someone who may not feel that same level of attraction for you...but hey! THERE IS A CHANCE THAT HE MAY FALL FOR YOU...don't spoil that by being clingy, desperate and saddenned all the time...live your life happily, enjoy yourself with or without him...be yourself and keep your options open...there a more than 4 billion men out there who may want to carry you off into the sunset and here you are crying over this one guy who may not give you the love that you need... 10 months is a long time to be with a guy and if he doesn’t make the move to the next level to be more than ‘just friends’…he is not that really into you. He enjoys your company but that doesn’t mean he will fall for you unless otherwise…you prove to him that you’re worth pursuing. Flirting is no sure way to prove that a guy wants to commit to you. it just shows he’s a male human being being intrigued by a female. I understand how it feels to fall for someone who may not feel that same level of attraction for you…but hey! THERE IS A CHANCE THAT HE MAY FALL FOR YOU…don’t spoil that by being clingy, desperate and saddenned all the time…live your life happily, enjoy yourself with or without him…be yourself and keep your options open…there a more than 4 billion men out there who may want to carry you off into the sunset and here you are crying over this one guy who may not give you the love that you need…

]]> By: avis http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man/comment-page-1#comment-1883 avis Sun, 27 Dec 2009 00:22:03 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man#comment-1883 I really enjoy reading your articles about love and relationships. My situation is somewhat a little different. I've been friends with this guy for ten months and we see each other on the daily basis. We have a wonderful time when we are together. We never been intimate as of yet. We both believe in being friends before lovers and i'm starting to want more. We sometimes flirt with each other but we are just friends. I need advice on my situation. I'm fallen for my friend and deep down inside i feel that he is fallen for me. He knows that i care about him and want more but he just say that we will only be friends. Please help me.I don't want to lose his friendship by bringing it up all the time. What should i do? I really enjoy reading your articles about love and relationships. My situation is somewhat a little different. I’ve been friends with this guy for ten months and we see each other on the daily basis. We have a wonderful time when we are together. We never been intimate as of yet. We both believe in being friends before lovers and i’m starting to want more. We sometimes flirt with each other but we are just friends. I need advice on my situation. I’m fallen for my friend and deep down inside i feel that he is fallen for me. He knows that i care about him and want more but he just say that we will only be friends. Please help me.I don’t want to lose his friendship by bringing it up all the time. What should i do?

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