Comments on: 3 Signs Of A Healthy Mature Man

By: sohan

sohan — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 04:20:07 +0000

u r gud..lol.

By: annelli

annelli — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 18:39:15 +0000

Judy that’s no excuse—the president of the united states is busy too, but I am certain he makes time for his wife and children. Men that use that “I’m busy” excuse are not really all that serious about a relationship although they may have feelings for you, even though they may love you, it’s just that it’s not that deep enough that they will make you a priority and if you are a great woman, you shouldn’t put up with that. In love relationships we shouldn’t settle regardless of how much we love the person or they love us—if they aren’t meeting our standards or giving just as much or more of what we are giving then we should end it. DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT settle in love…NEVER, EVER. The likelihood of your guy being different with someone else is slim to none as well…he is probably this way in all his relationship because that statement is true “How you do anything is how you do everything.”

By: judy

judy — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 05:21:27 +0000

Great article. But what if u have been giving your man your highest, happiest, most supportive self but not getting anything in return? Where is the effort on his part? How is he benefitting my life? I definitely don’t get the same kind of support and optimism from him. Sometimes I’ll feel sad because he’s so busy that he doesn’t have time for me. He says he loves me but that he can’t control how busy he is with school and work. I usually just end up feeling neglected or wondering what I did wrong. I know in my heart that I’ve been trying my best in to make this relationship work but it seems like I’m the only one putting in effort. My bf is always arguing for “himself”, while I’m arguing for “us”. I look at us as a team but when we argue he’ll bring me down and make me feel stupid. He basically makes me feel like I’m “wrong” for feeling that our relationship should take a higher priority in his life. I have a life, friends, a full-time and a part-time job and somehow I have all the time in the world for him.. He has a full plate as well but this apparently makes him unavailable most of the time.. Its hard for me to feel loved without some occasional reassurance. Anyways, any advice would be helpful. Thanks!

By: Diana

Diana — Sun, 12 Jun 2011 13:08:28 +0000

Hi.
Where and when are the live seminars on please?
I’m interested in later in the year in November, December, 2011 & January 2012
Thankyou so much, Diana

By: Peter

Peter — Wed, 27 Apr 2011 16:06:32 +0000

Your comment was a very good advise, than,s Peter G.

By: Peter

Peter — Wed, 27 Apr 2011 16:04:36 +0000

That,s was very good advise, but the change in many ways many times to. I never do this but I would like to an /e-mail from you. I,m a divorse for 10 years and my wife change me for another weman after 20 of merry, but I a,m a very honest man.

By: takesia ragland

takesia ragland — Mon, 18 Apr 2011 18:13:16 +0000

This article has really helped me identify rather or not the relationship i’m currently in is worth while. unfortunately it isn’t i’m with a guy that is very immature and disrespectful to me- but he says that he loves me he always calling me degrading names and accuses me of cheating. I had a potluck at work and he became very upset because i had baked a pie and brought in a wii game to play. he accused me of cheating with the boss and being a slut because of tht potluck and he kept calling my job leaving me voice mails calling me the office slut and a bitch and whore. he said that i shouldn’t of ate with the people at work or played the wii games. instead i should have eaten lunch by myself and wait for him to call me. this has happened on several occassions. at this point i am tired. i’m a younger woman in my 30s and he is 53. i thought he would be mature due to his age. then he blames me for him calling me names. he says it’s my fault.

By: Lori

Lori — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 21:09:13 +0000

but also i think he is playing games cause he says onething thn says something else, like he is still in love with me but doesnt wont to live with me oh well just didnt know if you guuys could explain cause thats weird

By: Lori

Lori — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 21:06:34 +0000

i have been with my sons dad for 3 years and this is the second time he has just up and ran off he has never had a stable realtionship his mom and dad left him when he was 4 and i have tried to give him a good life but the first time he was cheating but i do love him very much and i know he was sorry for what he had doen but now its my time to shine in the light im a beautifull girl with a wonderful little 2 year old son who is the light of my life but i want to let go i just didnt it would be this hard but im doing it and staying strong !!!!

By: Lori

Lori — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 21:03:21 +0000

comin to TN anytime i would love to see you